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December 31, 2018, 10:57:18 PM Last Edit: January 01, 2019, 01:11:13 AM by Lisa89125
If you could have anything in the world what would it be?

Lisa


"My inner self knows better than my outer self my true gender"

Not yet quite ready to post my real self.
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BritneyX

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December 31, 2018, 11:06:35 PM
One thing or a matched set of one thing?

The one thing that I want is bear my own child.  The matched set would be to fall in love with man of my dreams, to get married, and then build a Family the old fashioned way.
"Out of all the attributes of humanity, the only one that matters most, is the one that cannot fail you.  That is Honesty. Without it, nothing else about your person will hold up." :angel:
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Arianna Valentine

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December 31, 2018, 11:09:01 PM
Boobs and a vagina

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BritneyX

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December 31, 2018, 11:23:33 PM
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 31, 2018, 11:09:01 PM
Boobs and a vagina

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I could settle with that. 
"Out of all the attributes of humanity, the only one that matters most, is the one that cannot fail you.  That is Honesty. Without it, nothing else about your person will hold up." :angel:
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dee82

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December 31, 2018, 11:30:18 PM
Serious answer: Freedom from anxiety and worry.

Frivolous answer: Air fares and tickets to the TWICE concert in Tokyo on March 29, 2019.

~Dee.
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Linde

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December 31, 2018, 11:35:48 PM
Getting back together with my ex!

Frivolous: having somebody come in daily and do all the work in and around the house, to allow me more time to swing wrenches on my vehicles!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy
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Kylo

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January 01, 2019, 08:31:57 AM
Complete mental control over all aspects of the self. 
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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ChrissyRyan

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January 01, 2019, 08:47:23 AM
Quote from: Dietlind on December 31, 2018, 11:35:48 PM
Getting back together with my ex!

Frivolous: having somebody come in daily and do all the work in and around the house, to allow me more time to swing wrenches on my vehicles!


Linde,

Do you clearly see the route to make that happen?
What would it take for that to happen?
Are you willing to make that happen?  Is she?

If yes, go for it with all your heart and energy.

Hugs,

Chrissy

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Devlyn

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January 01, 2019, 09:34:17 AM
Neverending macaroni and cheese bowl.
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ChrissyRyan

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January 01, 2019, 09:50:11 AM
Quote from: Devlyn on January 01, 2019, 09:34:17 AM
Neverending macaroni and cheese bowl.


You run the risk of getting plump if you ate that much though!   :)
I do like mac and beef.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Devlyn

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January 01, 2019, 09:53:03 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 01, 2019, 09:50:11 AM

You run the risk of getting plump if you ate that much though!   :)
I do like mac and beef.

Chrissy

Nah, I have the metabolism of an F-16!  ;)
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KathyLauren

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January 01, 2019, 10:17:20 AM
Go big or go home: world peace.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Linde

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January 01, 2019, 10:26:22 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 01, 2019, 08:47:23 AM

Linde,

Do you clearly see the route to make that happen?
What would it take for that to happen?
Are you willing to make that happen?  Is she?

If yes, go for it with all your heart and energy.

Hugs,

Chrissy
Me yes, she just wants to be friends, and not to live with me anymore (we live almost 2000 miles away from each other now).  If I could make it happen, I would try to be a cis man again if she would want me to be one!

I know It will never happen, but an old person can still dream!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy
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Gertrude

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January 01, 2019, 10:32:29 AM
Good health


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ChrissyRyan

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January 01, 2019, 10:34:07 AM
Quote from: Dietlind on January 01, 2019, 10:26:22 AM
Me yes, she just wants to be friends, and not to live with me anymore (we live almost 2000 miles away from each other now).  If I could make it happen, I would try to be a cis man again if she would want me to be one!

I know It will never happen, but an old person can still dream!


Linde,

Have you made it absolutely clear to her how you feel and what you are willing to do?
That you want to remarry her?  That the problems you gave to her in the past will not reoccur?

If so, then all you can do in this matter is to wait to see if she changes her mind. 
Maybe she might want to try living with you beofre remarriage to see how it goes?
Have you invited her to stay for vacation at your house?  That might be a good step.

Wishing you the best,

Chrissy

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Linde

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January 01, 2019, 10:51:19 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 01, 2019, 10:34:07 AM

Linde,

Have you made it absolutely clear to her how you feel and what you are willing to do?
That you want to remarry her?  That the problems you gave to her in the past will not reoccur?

If so, then all you can do in this matter is to wait to see if she changes her mind. 
Maybe she might want to try living with you beofre remarriage to see how it goes?
Have you invited her to stay for vacation at your house?  That might be a good step.

Wishing you the best,

Chrissy
Yes, I did make it clear, but she just does not want it anymore.  She is supportive of my transition but nothing else.
She is now living with another man, and seems to be OK with him.
I will continue to be very nice to her, and continue to tell her that I still love her!  But I am afraid that I blew it for good, when I acted like a mad man several years ago.  She stayed with me for a few years during my rage, but she finally gave up and left.
At the time I had no idea what was going on with me, I was looking for reasons to explode and make everybody miserable who came close to me.
I am happy that I was able to win the love of my son back, and got her to talk with me.  The rest is out of my hands and in the hands of the Lord, I pray daily for the reunion of the two of us.

Thank you for your wishes and your understanding!
Real big bear hugs
Linde
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy
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Arianna Valentine

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January 01, 2019, 10:53:17 AM
Quote from: Devlyn on January 01, 2019, 09:34:17 AM
Neverending macaroni and cheese bowl.
Omg yes!!!!!

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Arianna Valentine

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January 01, 2019, 10:54:33 AM
I wonder what the death of all stupid people be too much of a reach oh and the death of all homophobes transforms I don't know if there's a lesbian phobic but them to

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Kirsteneklund7

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January 01, 2019, 10:55:13 AM
Quote from: Kylo on January 01, 2019, 08:31:57 AM
Complete mental control over all aspects of the self.
I can dig this! I would like this, I would like to be able to self actualise much more.

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As a child prayed to be a girl- now the prayer is being answered - 40 years later !
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Devlyn

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January 01, 2019, 10:55:55 AM
Quote from: Devlyn on January 01, 2019, 09:34:17 AM
Neverending macaroni and cheese bowl.

Quote from: Arianna Valentine on January 01, 2019, 10:53:17 AM
Omg yes!!!!!

Yeah, knocks the crap out of that world peace thing, doesn't it?  :laugh:
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