Quote from: Clara_D on March 27, 2019, 08:53:17 PM
From someone who's shrunk and doesn't have erections anymore: Wand-style vibrator and/or vibrating plugs can be your friend.

I actually dislike the idea that I would have to do a "set up" to get to the point.  I assume the plugs would be used anal?  That would not work because nothing but the finger of my doc for the annual prostate check, will ever enter my rear door!

Quote from: Dietlind on March 28, 2019, 09:30:38 PM
I actually dislike the idea that I would have to do a "set up" to get to the point.  I assume the plugs would be used anal?  That would not work because nothing but the finger of my doc for the annual prostate check, will ever enter my rear door!

Well, hope I didn't offend, at least. 

Quote from: Astxl on March 28, 2019, 07:30:52 PM
Well, a boy can't put his dick in my bottom part because i have the same as him... so, thats the difference between male genitalia and female genitalia.

I wish i can have my surgery this year or the other.

Not entirely true is it? I have had boys and men in my bottom since I was 10. Not voluntarily I assure you but it did happen. It did become voluntary later, I don't want to mislead anyone by the time I was fourteen it was quite normal and occasionally voluntarily, I just think that that perhaps the statement could be revised. Men can have sex with men and women with women, it happens all of the time. This may seem way off to most but I think that we don't transition for sex, we transition because the gender of our brain does not match the gender of our body. Sex is an issue that I feel should never be equated with gender. Male giraffes have sex all of the time, not about dominance either, just about sex. Is it sex or gender we are talking about? If it is sex I feel that I have wasted my life.

Quote from: Dietlind on March 28, 2019, 09:30:38 PM
I actually dislike the idea that I would have to do a "set up" to get to the point.  I assume the plugs would be used anal?  That would not work because nothing but the finger of my doc for the annual prostate check, will ever enter my rear door!

Haha! I don't think that the rear door was being mentioned. I have a trans friend that is very, very small and from what she has said a vibrator is the quickest way to climax. Not in her backdoor either! I use one myself sometimes and not back there, it works if you can believe it.

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I am sorry, I did not clarify. The difference between male parts and female parts have nothing to do with sex. I hope this doesn't rub anyone the wrong way but we are searching for something more than the facsimile that is only just now possible. We can hope in the future medicine and science will do better but wish in one hand and crap in the other, you tell me which will fill up first. I for one am happy beyond measure that we have what we have available, but to know the difference at this time is impossible. No one to date has felt both.

Genitalia is important to me, but more important by far is that I walk in the bright light of day as a female. When I have my surgery I will write the last tic in my journal but I think my transition was done when the world unquestioning accepted me as female.

That being said, I would sacrifice a small goat maybe to be able to dress as I please and not worry about that ridiculous thing.

Thanks Danielle! I will try to post something there soon.

Quote from: Clara_D on March 28, 2019, 10:02:49 PM
Well, hope I didn't offend, at least. 

No, you did not!