I have VERY fat upper thighs which coupled with my distorted hips means the chub rub is well... substantially more than it ever used to be. I mean I can get actual BLEEDING chaffing from it, it's so painful.

So I always tend to wear little bike shorts underneath anything to avoid the rubbing.

And no, sadly, trousers don't avoid it. Any seam rubs and then you get the same rubbing. It's not as bad but it's still painful.

So i'm trying to find a pair of long boxer briefs that'd go almost to my knee or just above that I could wear as my daily underwear rather than having to have briefs AND shorts (which is crazy hot in the summer)

I know you can get male long boxer briefs but they aren't that easy to find and because i'm not yet at the whole stopping periods phase and have quite sensitive scarring down there the looseness of men's baggy crotches can sometimes actually be extremely uncomfortable and impractical if i'm bleeding (and my periods are NOT predictable at all, they show up when they want, randomly, just to screw with me. Sometimes in the middle of the dang day).

Is there ANYTHING that has the more "female" shape in the crotch but the length in the legs?
Or is it possible to adjust men's boxerbriefs to be a little less flappy?

I found some women's support underwear for wearing under dresses where you don't want a pantyline but they squeeze IN so would emphasise curves i'd sooner not be emphasising.

And all the women's "long boxer briefs" are NOT long at all, they're short. Why you gotta suck so much women's clothing? Just why?

so yeah, anyone got any suggestions i'd really appreciate it!

I'm in the UK if that makes any difference.

Hi @F_P_M

I adore wearing long leg boxer briefs. I buy these off of Amazon, Gildan Men's Cotton Spandex Athletic Long Leg Boxer Briefs, 3-Pack. (United States customer) I'm well past needing to wear any type of protection so I can't speak to their efficacy.

Good luck,
Perry

i'll look them up! thank you!

I found some "anti chaffing" shorts on M&S too which I might grab to try out. But they get worn over the top like I do with my shorts anyway. Still they're supposedly made of something to "keep you cool"

So those could be an option with regular cotton panties inside on "damnit bleeding" days provided I start when i'm at home. I suppose I could carry an emergancy pair with me lol.

Lycra cycle shorts in place of boxers. Get a whole bunch of em cheap, feel good and no chafing because they go a bit further down the leg than boxers, if you want you could wear both I guess, the shorts under the boxers