Hello out there.

Having been a huge participant in other forums in the now (very) past - particularity a lucid dreaming forum - it has been natural yet awkward getting to this intro. Not that navigating the subject matter of SP is generally without hardship. Coming out of virtually nowhere [me], only having some contact with trans/queer people through out my life. One very intimate one, yet fairy sheltered. but i do have a lot of questions. Lots of ambiguity and probably some rigid assumptions withstanding.

How about this...after merely browsing the topics here for awhile, my dreams have been swayed into gender issues. Another wave cropping up in a lifelong temperamental ocean. I fear sweetening my brain on all the lofty encouragement that goes around here, but at the same time am not nessicarily all that healthy-minded sitting outside this circle. That is without aid and as a lone wolf.

Ok so if anything, that is what i am a lone wolf...meeting you here. And how are you?

Where do the oil-needing newbs go from here?? (thirty something and adrogenous one here btw)

@aunatural
DearAunatural:
     I am happy to see that you have come out of the "Reader Zone" and now have taken the next step.
.... BUT, First Things First... you need to be Officially Greeted as a new member and given the rules and information that you will find helpful as you continue being involved in the Forums.
     I am so very glad that you have become a member here and this is your very first posting.   I am happy to see that you found the Susan's Place Forums.

    As you post on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you are.   I expect that you will be getting many members offering their thoughts and suggestions as you continue to post here. 

    This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation and as you continue to feel free to share with all of us.

    I also want to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new like-minded friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
   
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Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

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Hi Aunatural 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's Place!
The circle here encompasses everyone and we all can be a lone wolf at times.
Social life in our pack is such a sweet thing.

I see that our lovely Northern Star*Girl @Alaskan Danielle has greeted you with her charm and grace along with giving you some very helpful links to information that can help you within our circle that you've stepped into.  Please give them a look see.  Again welcome, I'm glad you're here.

Hugs and smiles from a California girl

Hi @jessica ...and @AlaskanDanielle

"lone wolfs" ahh, i'm so insensitive! (understatement)...supposing we are indeed amongst a particular demographic that isn't entirally insider. And i said "adrogenous"!...forthright in my personal expression progress maybe? BLESSED?

Your message = wonderful

Though i adhere to the lone wolf statement, in that it is pronounced and characterises my circumstance to a T.

Can i just say, after that: E

Eeee

Additionals with such unconditional kindness or an even passing interest.

Imagine someone very far removed from their own future. Not on any T or E. But would be the latter if things in life were to make more sense. Or more assuredness were to come about. Or definitively NOT on? (Dreadfull uncertainty). Recently in difficult psychological circumstances though that may be a truth to this walk. And i do relate with/am cozy on. Thinking about and seeing expressed. Dysphoria maybe, here. Already in contact with mental health professionals for other (related?) things? Check.

Needing some juicy insider pointers towards any beginners threads. Check...all that entry level articulation on uncertainty but not nessicarily about family stuff and acceptance.

Maybe

Or

...something to make someone laugh a little at what is surely a sometimes humorless bind? (getting to the center of oneself)

Quote from: aunatural on May 30, 2019, 11:22:06 AM
Additionals with such unconditional kindness or an even passing interest.

Imagine someone very far removed from their own future. Not on any T or E. But would be the latter if things in life were to make more sense. Or more assuredness were to come about. Or definitively NOT on? (Dreadfull uncertainty). Recently in difficult psychological circumstances though that may be a truth to this walk. And i do relate with/am cozy on. Thinking about and seeing expressed. Dysphoria maybe, here. Already in contact with mental health professionals for other (related?) things? Check.

Needing some juicy insider pointers towards any beginners threads. Check...all that entry level articulation on uncertainty but not nessicarily about family stuff and acceptance.

Maybe

Or

...something to make someone laugh a little at what is surely a sometimes humorless bind? (getting to the center of oneself)

All is appropriate or whatever pops into your mind.

Hi Aunatural 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

Welcome Aunatural!

I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding what you need here at Susan's Place. I'm kind of new here too and have found it to be a very supportive, very informative kind of place. If I ever have any questions I just post em' and then sit back and watch the responses come rolling in. I hope you'll find the same satisfaction here that I have. There's the added benefit that I've actually been able to make some real friends here.

Again welcome to Susan's,

xoxo
Lexxi