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Started by Lori Dee, February 23, 2024, 09:53:26 AM

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Lori Dee

@Emma1017

Thanks, Emma.

Fortunately for me, my income is solely from disability (VA & private pension) and Social Security, and they will pay internationally. I would likely keep my bank account in the States as long as that is an option. I have no wealth and if I were to leave, I would sell off everything like furniture and my Jeep. Then do international bank transfers of cash only as needed. That way, I can leave the country with nothing to declare and re-enter with nothing to declare.  ;D

I had a friend of mine who married a Thai woman. They would fly to Thailand a few times a year to visit her family. They always brought back a LOT of gold chain necklaces. It was a nice little side business.  ;D
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Gina P

lori,
 Nice avatar pic. Curious if all of your gold is found by panning or if you have one of those new slewth box's.
  A close friend of mine is going to move to Columbia at least for a short time. He says the rate of exchange if increadable. Took a family of 5 out to dinner there for 17 dollars. He married a girl from thier and says crime is not a problem in thier area. I don't know if  would have that much courage to just move there.
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Lori Dee

Quote from: Gina P on December 11, 2024, 08:00:53 AMCurious if all of your gold is found by panning or if you have one of those new slewth box's.

Thanks, Gina.

I use both gold pans and sluice boxes. The sluice I use the most is one that I designed myself. I had one that was factory-made, but I was not having much luck with it. I began studying mining reports that discussed sluice design and realized that most companies are selling junk.

It is five feet long and was made in sections, so I can fold it up and fit it into my backpack. I figured out what design I needed for the conditions in my area, then bought several sections of rubber mats from Gold Hog that fit my design. Later, I bought a Stream Sluice from Gold Hog, but it could not outperform my design, so I seldom use it.

After using my design for a few years, I felt I had proven it works well. So, I wrote a couple of articles on my website about sluice box designs and how to use them.

https://www.lori-dee.com/post/sluices-long-toms-and-dredges

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ChrissyRyan

Lori,

You are filling out nicely, judging by your current (12/11/2024) avatar.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 11, 2024, 11:34:55 PMLori,

You are filling out nicely, judging by your current (12/11/2024) avatar.

Chrissy

The miracles of AI photography give me the figure I want and keep me looking young.  ;D

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Lori Dee

Lori Dee is two years old today!  :eusa_dance:

On this day in 2022, I had my court date for Legal Name Change.
I have officially been Lori Dee ever since.

Celebrate every little milestone when you get them. It is good for your mental health.
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2017 - GD Diagnosis / 2019- 2nd Diagnosis / 2020 - HRT / 2022 - FFS & Legal Name Change
/ 2024 - Voice Training / 2025 - Passport & IDs complete

Jessica_Rose

Happy re-Birthday Lori! Those first few years being 'you' can be quite difficult. Taking a little time to celebrate some of those anniversaries really is important. I hope you have a fabulous day!

Love always -- Jess
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National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on December 12, 2024, 09:52:09 AMThe miracles of AI photography give me the figure I want and keep me looking young.  ;D




Awesome.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 12, 2024, 11:57:21 AMHappy re-Birthday Lori! Those first few years being 'you' can be quite difficult. Taking a little time to celebrate some of those anniversaries really is important. I hope you have a fabulous day!

Love always -- Jess

Well, I appreciate that.

I was in a car accident. I was on my way to sell the last of my gold and got rear-ended. I'm ok, no injuries. I think the car that hit me might be totaled. My Jeep has some plastic trim on the bumper that got cracked. It's 20 degrees out, so no surprise. I am really surprised that my damage was minimal.

I have the police report and have filed a claim against her insurance. She couldn't apologize enough for hitting me.

The police took down our information and asked me how long I had lived in the city. I said since 2015. He said they don't have a "name card" on file for me. I told them that 2 years ago today I had a legal name change done through the court. I had to give him all my old information so they could update their records. He was cool about it. Said people get married and change their names all the time, so it's no big deal to update their files.

When getting ready to leave the officer warned me that I might get sore after the adrenaline wears off. So I will be taking it easy today. If I need to I can go down to the VA tomorrow and get checked out, but I believe I am okay.

Enough about me, how is your day going?  ;D
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on December 12, 2024, 09:58:50 AMLori Dee is two years old today!  :eusa_dance:

On this day in 2022, I had my court date for Legal Name Change.
I have officially been Lori Dee ever since.

Celebrate every little milestone when you get them. It is good for your mental health.

Yay!
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Emma1017



Lori, you have been busy!

First, I am so glad that you are OK.  Car accidents are so random.

Second, your avatar is HOT!

Third, the world is filled with countries where the dollar goes the distance.  Best to find one with good medical care and a fair judicial system.  After that have fun finding your "Spot".

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ChrissyRyan

Yes her avatar is attractive.

But in real life she is too, in other ways besides looks too, I am confident. 

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

Lori,

I wonder if frost and frost heaves uncover gold for you out in the field?  Does it or is there no way of really telling?

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 14, 2024, 02:32:09 PMLori,

I wonder if frost and frost heaves uncover gold for you out in the field?  Does it or is there no way of really telling?

Chrissy


Not directly. It's not like there will be little piles of gold. I wish.

but it helps erode the ore out of the lode. Water gets in the cracks and expands when it freezes. That makes the crack bigger, so more water can get in, and the process repeats.

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Quote from: Lori Dee on December 12, 2024, 02:21:20 PMWhen getting ready to leave the officer warned me that I might get sore after the adrenaline wears off. So I will be taking it easy today. If I need to I can go down to the VA tomorrow and get checked out, but I believe I am okay.

I was rear ended about 20-25 years ago.  I was fine after the accident and went about my business.  A day or so later I had sever back and neck pain.  My doctor at the time prescribed some muscle relaxers and that did the trick.  Haven't had any back issues since.  It's funny how the body reacts to trauma.

I glad you're okay after the accident.

Warm Regards,
Paulie.
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Quote from: Lori Dee on December 12, 2024, 02:21:20 PMWell, I appreciate that.

I was in a car accident. I was on my way to sell the last of my gold and got rear-ended. I'm ok, no injuries. I think the car that hit me might be totaled. My Jeep has some plastic trim on the bumper that got cracked. It's 20 degrees out, so no surprise. I am really surprised that my damage was minimal.

I have the police report and have filed a claim against her insurance. She couldn't apologize enough for hitting me.

The police took down our information and asked me how long I had lived in the city. I said since 2015. He said they don't have a "name card" on file for me. I told them that 2 years ago today I had a legal name change done through the court. I had to give him all my old information so they could update their records. He was cool about it. Said people get married and change their names all the time, so it's no big deal to update their files.

When getting ready to leave the officer warned me that I might get sore after the adrenaline wears off. So I will be taking it easy today. If I need to I can go down to the VA tomorrow and get checked out, but I believe I am okay.

Enough about me, how is your day going?  ;D


Lori,


Jeeps are quite sturdy.  Are you doing okay today?

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Yes, thanks!

I was sore for a day, but all is well.

I will be busy Monday and Tuesday with appointments, so I'll be back on Wednesday.
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ChrissyRyan

I hope your appointments go well.

We look forward to your return.

Chrissy
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Today's appointment at the passport office went well. In and out in a matter of minutes. No lines, no waiting. I was a little early for my appointment, but the clerk brought me in we got it done.

I noticed that she had a coffee cup on the counter being used as a pen holder. It had rainbow stripes on it. Not exactly a Pride flag, but the same colors.

She told me that the passport and card should arrive in 14 days, but due to the holidays, I will likely receive them by the first week of January. I said that was fine as long as I had it before the 20th. I am not going anywhere right away, but I want to make sure I have all my documents in order.

She said not to worry, many of the claims being made about changes to the government will never happen. But just the same (she paused thinking of the correct phrase) people are getting things like this done, just in case. She wanted to say "transgender" but stopped herself. She knew I was because she had my court order with name and gender change right in front of her. She said that my original paperwork would be mailed back to me.

I told her that when that happens, I can apply to have my birth certificate corrected, but Pennsylvania is taking 5 months to get it done. She said she believes it because Pennsylvania has more ... (another pause) ... people than South Dakota.  :)

This whole conversation and process, including the photo, swearing an oath, and signing the form took about five minutes. No exaggeration.

Tomorrow, I have a hearing aid check-up in the morning, and then in the afternoon, I take the Jeep over to the body shop to get a damage estimate for my insurance claim.

Any guesses on how much the damage will be for my Jeep?

Her car:



My Jeep:




I am so happy that no one got hurt.
I've never been more proud of a motor vehicle.
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ChrissyRyan

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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