Hello Russ.
Let me add my welcome to Kelli's. You have definitely come to the right place for advice and support. Susan's is full of information, experiences and simple fellowship. Be sure to check out the Significant Others Forum. That area is strictly for SO's to discuss things with out the fear of your topics being trampled on by the TG members here

That's the way it's supposed to work

Check out the Wiki which the knowledge base here at Susan's as you will find a wealth of information there. There is a link to it on the top of every page. Also you may wish to check out the Chat area if that is to your liking.
So relax you are among friends. Don't be afraid to post questions or ask for advice, we will all do our best to help you.
Chat later.
Steph