Too funny! A quick aside, and please correct/chastise me if I say anything out of line. I don't believe Kat was trolling. I think she honestly believes sex, gender, and genitalia are equivalent terms. Of course, that is the kind of binary, black and white attitude many of us confront on a daily basis (although there is a bit of irony considering the source). Today, I was still dressed in a skirt and blouse when my daughter got home from work. For the first time since the first time I attempted to explain the word 'genderfluid' to her almost two years ago, she didn't flinch. I wish there was a way to invite TanyaG into your discussion with Kat and I apologize for urging a continuation of the topic. I was learning things. But what I learn should never come at the expense of what someone else already knows. Especially someone who has suffered greatly in the pursuit of that knowledge.