To say 'I am horrified at this ruling' is an understatement. That the country I used to call home, that I was born in, could with one stupid act deny me basic human rights is down right disgusting.
I have a GRC. On obtaining this I was told that legally I was now considered a woman, that anyone who treated me otherwise or even made reference to the fact that I once lived as a man could be take to court, punished and stopped from that evil discrimination against me..
Now I am being told that this is not correct - that this does not confer on me some protection of my status, on the contrary, this now highlights me as a target, as a person to discriminate against.
Now, I am being told that if I am searched by police or border guards, it will be performed by males,
If I am hospitalized I will be on a male ward,
I am not allowed to use female changing rooms, bathrooms or even call myself a woman..
My body is feminized, very much so. I had GRS and thus have no secondary or primary sexual characteristics of a male. I am married to a man, have been for a good while now, but in the UK this would be deemed a homosexual relationship, even though my husband is not, and has never been, gay. I live my life as a woman, most people who know me, work with me and interact with me only know me as a woman. No one questions my gender, even my close friends who don't know my full history. Yet, still, the UK would treat me as a man.. if they did this to any other woman, the consequences, the legal fallout would be huge.. but somehow, it is okay to subject me to this kind of abuse. Okay for me to face the indignity of having a man strip search me, or for me to have to use the men's changing rooms.. there is only one word, that is disgusting.
This situation in the UK is frankly idiotic and I am sure in times to come will be viewed in the same vein as other discriminatory acts of men. In the meantime, I am glad I no longer live in that country... I feel sorry for everyone who does, not only my trans friends, but everyone in that country is now living a poorer and less colourful life than before.
There is a British saying - 'If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck - then, it's a duck!'.. A common-sense approach to life and its classifications.. common sense just needs to be applied here, now, please!
I hope soon this will pass, I hope liberty and fraternity will be installed where now there is fear and loathing.