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I am liking dresses more, do you enjoy wearing them?

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Lori Dee

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February 19, 2025, 10:07:09 PM
That is understandable.

I read a survey done by a women's magazine back in the 80s that said that when women dress up to go out, 90% of women dress for the other women, not for the men. The implication was that a compliment on our appearance coming from another nice-looking woman is more reaffirming and we hold their opinion in higher esteem.

And as we all know men are pigs and will leer at cartoon characters, so their opinion doesn't really matter.  ;D  (Just kidding. Guys are so adorable when they fall all over themselves).

But a compliment from another woman has a lot of value. I don't think you were fishing for compliments, but it was the same sort of thinking when trying to decide what to wear. At least that's what I think was happening.
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ChrissyRyan

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February 19, 2025, 10:17:13 PM
Lori,

Yes, I do not have any motivation to fish for compliments.
I politely accept them, but never try to get one. 
It is good to look professional when the situation calls for it and this makes it more comfortable for me.  There are situations where you should dress well.

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ChrissyRyan

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April 20, 2025, 01:09:03 PM
Soon we will get to wear sundresses again!



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April Marie

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April 21, 2025, 12:23:10 PM
I do love wearing dresses and skirts. With warmer weather, I'll also soon be wearing a lot of skorts, too. I can't wait!!!
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D'Amalie

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April 21, 2025, 12:25:23 PM
Skorts are best. Other wise biker shorts or Spanxs under Skirts.  I'm too heavy for summer dresses.
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ChrissyRyan

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April 21, 2025, 12:30:13 PM
Quote from: D'Amalie on April 21, 2025, 12:25:23 PMSkorts are best. Other wise biker shorts or Spanxs under Skirts.  I'm too heavy for summer dresses.

I like skorts.
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