Hello everyone!

I am trying to decide if I am in the right place. 

I'll just jump right in.  I started having a fascination with pantyhose at early age. Started with just looking at pictures of women in pantyhose and then later wearing them.  At some point, I started to wear dresses with them and found that I really enjoyed it.  I then stopped when I almost got caught.  After college and several years of marriage, I found myself in Target in front of a tights display.  I saw a blue color that I loved and I could not resist purchasing it.  I then fell back into wearing tights and my wife's dresses when nobody was home. I was eventually caught by my wife and she was none too thrilled.  I continue to wear tights when I can and a dress that my wife no longer cares about.  I started wearing a wig with it as well.  I consider myself to still be a cisgender heterosexual male, but dressing up every now and then just relaxes me.

I hope to find others in a similar place with whom I can connect.

- me (no fem name right now)

You are in the right place, sweetie. Welcome to Susan's Place!

You'll get a few folks come in to explain the do's and don'ts of the site but most of it is common sense. We have a vast swathe of people here with differing experiences and differing viewpoints. What matters is you took the step to put yourself out there.

*hugs*

Welcome to the site.. uh... you.

@Lovertights73
Dear Lovertights73:
YES... you are in the exact spot that I had given you a LINK for in my Welcome Message that
was in response to your very first posting here on the Susan's Place Forum ...
 
...please be certain to look over and read carefully that RULES that govern the
Forum that I posted to you 3 days ago on May 6th in my Welcome Message.
 
Here on the INTRODUCTIONS forum this is the place where our other members can
get an idea of who you are and what are your goals and aspirations for signing up as a member here.

Thank you for sharing and I trust that this is only the beginning of your involvement here on the Fourm.

Again, WELCOME to Susan's Place and the Forum.
Warmly, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]  direct email: alaskandanielle@yahoo.com
    The Forum Administrator

Quote from: Lovertights73 on May 09, 2025, 06:01:14 PMI am trying to decide if I am in the right place. 

If you're not in the right place, few of us are. Welcome.

Thank you everyone for the kind welcome.

I had at one point used the name "Sloan" to refer to my feminine side, so I'll use that name for now.

Hugs

- Sloan

Welcome to Susan's Place, Sloan.

As you browse the site and read some of our members' stories, I think you will find many similarities.

@Lovertights73
Dear Sloan:
Thank you for sharing your first name with all of us, your new friends here on
Susan's Place and the Forum.

    You are now now known as  Sloan here on the Forum.

It is always nice see a name for each of our members here.  Thank you.

Warmly, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: Lovertights73 on May 09, 2025, 06:36:19 PMThank you everyone for the kind welcome.

I had at one point used the name "Sloan" to refer to my feminine side, so I'll use that name for now.

Hugs

- Sloan

Quote from: Lovertights73 on May 09, 2025, 06:01:14 PMHello everyone!

I am trying to decide if I am in the right place. 

I'll just jump right in.

There are so many parts of your story I can relate to, it really does sound like you're in the right place.

Welcome to Susan's, Sloan!

~ Lilis 💗

Quote from: Lori Dee on May 09, 2025, 06:54:00 PMWelcome to Susan's Place, Sloan.

As you browse the site and read some of our members' stories, I think you will find many similarities.

Welcome back to Susan's, Lori. 

~ Lilis 💗

Welcome, Sloan!! Sorry to take a bit to welcome you but my wife and I are on a trip to Sicily and i haven't had much time to check in. This is definitely the right place for you. Each of us is at a different spot on this vast spectrum of our identities. While we are each unique, we also have many similarities. You'll find many of us who started similarly to you and, while some of us have moved to transition, many have remained somewhere short of that. The most important thing is to find what makes you happy and fulfilled.

Welcome!


Chrissy

Hi Sloan and welcome, you'll find we're a diverse bunch, welcoming and compassionate too!

Welcome to Susan's,
  You will find many of us share similar pasts. For me it was more about breasts and bra's. Dressing up and fantasying helped for a while until I felt the need to fully transition. Everyone is different and some find the need to fully transition is needed others can cope with less. We are here for you.

Thank you.  I was hesitant about joining since for me it is (at least from what I know about myself right now) about the dressing up and not so much about any further transition.  I find that many crossdressing sites seem to be more about transition support than just dressing up (which I guess could be considered a fetish), however I have been told by my wife that I also do take on a more feminine (or at least different) sensibility with tone and touch and that I do have a different type of confidence and joy.  So 🤷🏼�♂️.

*Hugs*

Sloan

Hi, Sloan.

All are welcome here. Even though the site's major focus is on support for those transitioning, we also recognize that many of our members started out just cross-dressing. So you may be in the very early stages of discovering that for yourself. We are in no hurry. Some members take years to transition and some decide, for whatever reason, that they will not progress any further. Those are personal decisions.

For those who are not interested in transitioning, but do enjoy cross-dressing, we have a Cross Dressing forum. We also have a space for Kings and Queens who are into drag. We don't judge. It is important to provide a safe space where everyone can be themselves openly.

Quote from: Lovertights73 on May 09, 2025, 06:36:19 PMThank you everyone for the kind welcome.

I had at one point used the name "Sloan" to refer to my feminine side, so I'll use that name for now.

Hugs

- Sloan

Well hi Sloan, I'm Adrian. You're definitely in the right place to have your thoughts and feelings heard and to have open discussions on them. All of us have been through enough to have many different points of view and maybe be able to help you understand what it is that you're going through