Quote from: valerie anne on May 19, 2025, 01:28:54 PMI'm not big enough to be ogled, but I regularly get "explored" when underdressed by women who have detected my bra.

In the summer, I just wear a tee shirt with a bra underneath. Unless I deliberately press forward, my boobs are not obvious, but the bumps of my strap buckles can often be seen.

They often reach across my back, feeling for my straps and band, and ask me to reach for high shelves.
 
But they never say "are you wearing a bra". I would love to be properly groped!     

I do not think I would like to be groped in any unwanted way; but, having another woman cup my breasts and more is quite satisfying.

Quote from: valerie anne on May 19, 2025, 01:28:54 PMI'm not big enough to be ogled, but I regularly get "explored" when underdressed by women who have detected my bra.

In the summer, I just wear a tee shirt with a bra underneath. Unless I deliberately press forward, my boobs are not obvious, but the bumps of my strap buckles can often be seen.

They often reach across my back, feeling for my straps and band, and ask me to reach for high shelves.
 
But they never say "are you wearing a bra". I would love to be properly groped!     

T shirt bras may be the closest to be undetectable bras but I do not think they can be hidden unless one was wearing layers of clothing.

I previously got self conscious if a bra strap was revealed.  I finally said to myself that I am not purposely showing my bra strap (as I think some women do in public) and if a bra strap does show in the opening to my top, well, I no longer think it is embarrassing or awful because after all, I am a woman and people expect women to wear bras.  I will casually slip or tuck the strap under if I notice it.

What is most annoying is when the strap slipped over somewhat and I was continually adjusting it on my shoulder.  But that does not seem to happen as much as my breasts tend to fill up most of the bra cups now that I am a B cup and I have better fitting bras.

Chrissy

I've been oggled and wolf-whistled. I'm lucky to have long legs and, nowadays, big breasts. I was propositioned by western guys in Bangkok but whilst it was flattering, it was also uncomfortable. They were probably after one thing: welcome to the world of many women.

Living true to one's core essence isn't, or shouldn't be, about looks. I do wish I'd transitioned when I wanted to though in my teens. I could have made a decent go of it. Time is catching up with me although, again, welcome to the world of many women

Even  happens to me at 67! In the  supermarket  and young lad nearly put his neck out of  joint and  walked into a table checking me out.
An older  guy a bit older than me  told me he wished more women  looked like me instead of "smearing themselves  in makeup, dyed jet black or red unflattering short hairstyles  with massive  glasses and giant hoop earrings & frumpy  baggy clothes "

Quote from: big kim on May 21, 2025, 03:44:34 AMEven  happens to me at 67! In the  supermarket  and young lad nearly put his neck out of  joint and  walked into a table checking me out.
An older  guy a bit older than me  told me he wished more women  looked like me instead of "smearing themselves  in makeup, dyed jet black or red unflattering short hairstyles  with massive  glasses and giant hoop earrings & frumpy  baggy clothes "

Dressing appropriately and using minimal makeup when makeup is appropriate, as well as having nice hair is the way to go. 

Oggled, yes... Hormones has given my D cup breasts and I love wearing push-up bras and tops that show off my cleavage. I also have (So i Have been told), very nice legs. so I love showing them off, in a mini skirt or a nice maxi skirt with a silt.. I do get people that have a look, sometimes, Its funny, when guys are with their partners and they want to check me out, but dont want their partner too see, then you get this eye movement.

Groped, yes.. In my younger days, when I still clubbed with my friends, often on the dance floor you get these creeps, that "accidentally" bump into you... The one night. i felt his hand run up my thigh, he started near my knees and moved his way up.. I turned to him, excuse me.. he was like, sorry it was an accident.. yeah right... then he says, but I know you enjoyed it, you look so sexy in that dress (I will admit, I did look good  ).. was like noo... then it was-- come on baby dont be like that.. My friend just said, welcome to womanhood.. I had my butt groped lots of time in clubs. I actually dont miss my clubbing days


But now I am married woman, so I wear my wedding band, so I dont get so much attention, especially when you got 3 kids with you, I get the odd oggle.. but groping, only my husband may do that now ( I love it when he massages my breasts)

Quote from: noleen111 on May 21, 2025, 07:48:37 AMOggled, yes... Hormones has given my D cup breasts and I love wearing push-up bras and tops that show off my cleavage. I also have (So i Have been told), very nice legs. so I love showing them off, in a mini skirt or a nice maxi skirt with a silt.. I do get people that have a look, sometimes, Its funny, when guys are with their partners and they want to check me out, but dont want their partner too see, then you get this eye movement.

Groped, yes.. In my younger days, when I still clubbed with my friends, often on the dance floor you get these creeps, that "accidentally" bump into you... The one night. i felt his hand run up my thigh, he started near my knees and moved his way up.. I turned to him, excuse me.. he was like, sorry it was an accident.. yeah right... then he says, but I know you enjoyed it, you look so sexy in that dress (I will admit, I did look good  ).. was like noo... then it was-- come on baby dont be like that.. My friend just said, welcome to womanhood.. I had my butt groped lots of time in clubs. I actually dont miss my clubbing days


But now I am married woman, so I wear my wedding band, so I dont get so much attention, especially when you got 3 kids with you, I get the odd oggle.. but groping, only my husband may do that now ( I love it when he massages my breasts)

Guys often check out women that is for sure.  I think it must be biological.  They can choose to not look, or not make a prolong stare, but it is just Mother Nature that seems as a driver for them to look. 

Quote from: noleen111 on May 21, 2025, 07:48:37 AMOggled, yes... Hormones has given my D cup breasts and I love wearing push-up bras and tops that show off my cleavage. I also have (So i Have been told), very nice legs. so I love showing them off, in a mini skirt or a nice maxi skirt with a silt.. I do get people that have a look, sometimes, Its funny, when guys are with their partners and they want to check me out, but dont want their partner too see, then you get this eye movement.

Groped, yes.. In my younger days, when I still clubbed with my friends, often on the dance floor you get these creeps, that "accidentally" bump into you... The one night. i felt his hand run up my thigh, he started near my knees and moved his way up.. I turned to him, excuse me.. he was like, sorry it was an accident.. yeah right... then he says, but I know you enjoyed it, you look so sexy in that dress (I will admit, I did look good  ).. was like noo... then it was-- come on baby dont be like that.. My friend just said, welcome to womanhood.. I had my butt groped lots of time in clubs. I actually dont miss my clubbing days


But now I am married woman, so I wear my wedding band, so I dont get so much attention, especially when you got 3 kids with you, I get the odd oggle.. but groping, only my husband may do that now ( I love it when he massages my breasts)

Yes, it is nice to have breasts massaged when you want them to be.  It is a double pleasure to realize you actually have two to be massaged!  That was not always the case.

Quote from: noleen111 on May 21, 2025, 07:48:37 AMOggled, yes... Hormones has given my D cup breasts and I love wearing push-up bras and tops that show off my cleavage. I also have (So i Have been told), very nice legs. so I love showing them off, in a mini skirt or a nice maxi skirt with a silt.. I do get people that have a look, sometimes, Its funny, when guys are with their partners and they want to check me out, but dont want their partner too see, then you get this eye movement.

Groped, yes.. In my younger days, when I still clubbed with my friends, often on the dance floor you get these creeps, that "accidentally" bump into you... The one night. i felt his hand run up my thigh, he started near my knees and moved his way up.. I turned to him, excuse me.. he was like, sorry it was an accident.. yeah right... then he says, but I know you enjoyed it, you look so sexy in that dress (I will admit, I did look good  ).. was like noo... then it was-- come on baby dont be like that.. My friend just said, welcome to womanhood.. I had my butt groped lots of time in clubs. I actually dont miss my clubbing days


But now I am married woman, so I wear my wedding band, so I dont get so much attention, especially when you got 3 kids with you, I get the odd oggle.. but groping, only my husband may do that now ( I love it when he massages my breasts)

I do not go clubbing. It is nice to not be in an environment where there could be creeps.
I just avoid potential trouble.  I can see why people may enjoy going to clubs, dancing, and so on. 

No creeps though!

I am not confident enough, I would take it poorly.

Yeah I get oggled all the time