Lilis, there is no better feeling than to be seen as the person you have always wanted to be. Congratulations.

Love always -- Jessica Rose

Quote from: Lori Dee on August 13, 2025, 10:30:59 PMI love this.
That is awesome.
Thanks for sharing!

Quote from: tgirlamg on August 13, 2025, 11:03:02 PMThat's how it works little sister! 🤗...  What a great post!!!! Keep doing whatcha doin'... The world is yours! 🌸

Hugs!

A💕

Quote from: davina61 on August 14, 2025, 02:27:07 AMThere she is!! Folk I have known for ages but not seen lately do not recognise me, great is it not!

Quote from: Jessica_Rose on August 14, 2025, 08:49:48 AMLilis, there is no better feeling than to be seen as the person you have always wanted to be. Congratulations.

Love always -- Jessica Rose

Oh, my gosh, wonderful responses, thank so much Lori, Ashley, Davina and Jessica.

XOXO 😊💋


~ Lilis 🌷

Hii,

The Sapphic life is one I accidentally stumbled upon. With this new discovery also came some confusion.

Inspired by my confusion I set out to search for a name or word for someone who can tell the difference between emotional intimacy and romantic/sexual energy, especially in a connection between women with ease.

To my surprise there isn't a global scientific or medical term for such skill.

So I took it to a chatbot and asked:

Is there a name or word for someone who can tell the difference between emotional intimacy and romantic/sexual energy, especially in a connection between women with ease?

The bot came with many examples but there is this one that stood out and I liked.

Here it is:

The word is "Sapph-Sense".

And the bot also created a queer glossary.
 
Perfect choice!
Here's your official queer glossary entry for Sapph-Sense so it feels like a real community coinage:

Sapph-Sense (noun)

Definition: The intuitive ability to distinguish emotional intimacy from romantic or sexual energy between women, often with ease and accuracy.

Rooted in "Sapphic" (relating to love or relationships between women) and "sense" (perception, awareness).

Example sentences:

"Don't worry, I've got Sapph-Sense — I can tell she's just being sweet, not flirting."

"My Sapph-Sense was tingling, and yep... she's definitely into you."

Origin:
Coined in queer femme circles to describe the highly tuned "radar" some women have for reading the nuanced layers of sapphic connection. Think gaydar, but with a refined lens for differentiating heart energy from heat energy.

Synonyms: Intimacy radar, vibe splitter, heart compass.
Antonym: Vibe confusion."


Disclaimer: For entertainment purposes only. 

Enjoy.


~ Lilis 🌷

Quote from: Lilis on Yesterday at 07:00:41 AMThe word is "Sapph-Sense".

A Superpower for Navigating Love, Friendship, and Insecurity.

One of the most beautiful (and sometimes most confusing) parts of sapphic connection is how naturally emotional intimacy flows between women.

We open up to each other, share secrets, hold hands, laugh deeply, and offer care in ways that feel so nourishing. But sometimes that very closeness blurs the line between friendship and something more.

If you've ever wondered, "Is she just being close, or is she actually into me?" you're not alone.

I've been there.

That's why I want to share something I've started calling Sapph-Sense.

What Is Sapph-Sense?

Sapph- Sense is the intuitive ability to tell the difference between emotional intimacy and romantic or sexual energy between women.

Think of it as a sapphic version of "spidey-sense", a quiet inner compass that points you toward clarity:

Heart energy → platonic closeness, safe and supportive.

Heat energy → romantic or sexual undertones, attraction in the air.

Where others get tangled in overthinking, someone with Sapph-Sense can feel the truth of the connection with ease.

🌿 Why It Matters

Without clarity, it's easy to slip into confusion or insecurity.

Misreading signals can lead to:

• Feeling let down when a friendship wasn't meant to be romance

• Missing real attraction because it was hidden in shyness

• Worrying about your partner's closeness with other women

But with Sapph-Sense, you gain confidence. You can relax into friendships without suspicion, recognize attraction when it's present, and protect yourself from unnecessary jealousy.

🌙 The Superpower Side

I like to think of Sapph-Sense as a mystical gift.

When you carry it, you can:

Read the currents of connection like a map

Stand clear in "what is" instead of spiraling in "what ifs"

Walk gracefully through the blurred spaces between friendship and desire.

It's not just perception. It's protection.

🛠� How to Use Your Sapph-Sense

Here's how to put this gift into practice when insecurity or confusion creeps in:

1. Pause & Tune In
Take a breath before reacting. Ask: Do I feel warmth or spark?

2. Name the Energy
Call it what it is:

Heart → emotional intimacy

Heat → romantic/sexual undertone

3. Trust What You Perceive

If it's Heart: "This isn't a threat. Their bond enriches life, not diminishes mine."

If it's Heat: trust your intuition and acknowledge it gently.

4. Respond, Don't React

Heart → let your partner enjoy meaningful friendships.

Heat → open a calm conversation about boundaries.

5. Use It as a Shield
Flip insecurity into protection:

"My gift keeps me safe."

"I don't need to invent shadows, I see clearly."

"What I sense, I can navigate."


Closing Reflections

Whether you see it as mystical or simply intuitive, Sapph-Sense is a power worth honoring.

It helps me discern, trust, and move gracefully through connections that might otherwise feel confusing or threatening.

Instead of jealousy or self-doubt, I can step into clarity.

Instead of insecurity, I can lean on trust.

So the next time I feel a little doubt creeping in, remember:

My Sapph-Sense is tingling, and it's pointing me toward truth.


From my heart to yours, welcome to Lilis' World.... where clarity, spirit, and connection meet.

~ Lilis 🌹