Middle aged and sick of hiding...but petrified of what's to come

CynthiaR · September 24, 2025, 01:47:07 PM

Quote from: tgirlamg on September 23, 2025, 02:28:56 PMCindy!

Validating, Liberating and A Gateway to the connections in life that have been patiently awaiting you for a lifetime!... 🌻

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕

Oh my God, you would not believe the weight it has taken off of my shoulders. Almost feels as though I've finally been given permission to be who I really am.

Lori Dee · September 24, 2025, 01:54:19 PM

Quote from: CynthiaR on September 24, 2025, 01:47:07 PMOh my God, you would not believe the weight it has taken off of my shoulders. Almost feels as though I've finally been given permission to be who I really am.

Yes!

We can only give ourselves permission because our experience comes from deep within ourselves. Sometimes, we forget that we have that power, and then someone says something that unlocks our knowledge of that power.

As my psychologist told me, "It should never be difficult to just be ourselves."

Go and be YOU, in whatever way that means. 😀

tgirlamg · September 24, 2025, 02:04:39 PM

Quote from: CynthiaR on September 24, 2025, 01:47:07 PMOh my God, you would not believe the weight it has taken off of my shoulders. Almost feels as though I've finally been given permission to be who I really am.

The World Is Yours Sister!

Enjoy!

A 💕

CynthiaR · **Today** at 06:38:24 AM

Well, I finally did it. I came out to my wife. It was a rough couple of days. But, after giving her time to do her own research and answering every question I could, she's accepted who I am, and is being supportive. I cannot express in words what an absolute angel that woman is. I can only hope that her support continues as she begins to see the woman revealed.

Lori Dee · **Today** at 08:54:58 AM

That is a HUGE first step. Congrats!

As you have imagined, that could have gone any number of directions. The fact that she accepts you as you says so much about her love for you. That is a good sign that she will walk this path with you. Make sure she knows how much you appreciate that.

Have you found a therapist? If not, that may be the next step. It will be a big help to have a third party to help both of you as you navigate obstacles. It shows her that you are serious about this and are seeking answers from a professional. Maybe after a couple of sessions, you can invite your wife to the sessions for the same reason.

Thanks for the update!

tgirlamg · **Today** at 09:52:47 AM

Quote from: CynthiaR on Today at 06:38:24 AMWell, I finally did it. I came out to my wife. It was a rough couple of days. But, after giving her time to do her own research and answering every question I could, she's accepted who I am, and is being supportive. I cannot express in words what an absolute angel that woman is. I can only hope that her support continues as she begins to see the woman revealed.

Cindy!

Congrats on the good outcome sister and kudos on the courage you mustered to seek out what you needed! That same courage will serve you well in this new chapter of your life! Continue to Love and Appreciate your wife and the gift she has given you... The gift of the opportunity to find your long hidden self... Enjoy the ride... Amazing things await! 🌻

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕

Talula98 · **Today** at 11:08:22 AM

Welcome! Nice to see you on here!

CynthiaR · **Today** at 02:32:31 PM

@Lori Dee Yes, I have found a therapist. I've been working with her the past few weeks and will continue to work with her. Honestly, it was her just confirming that what I was experiencing was gender dysphoria, that gave me the courage to finally admit who I am, to the most important person in my life, my wife. I must admit, after some of our recent conversations, I've never felt closer to her. I certainly do want her involved and my intention is to have her attend upcoming sessions as my therapist and her see to be beneficial.

Pema · **Today** at 04:18:08 PM

Cynthia, this is wonderful news. Congratulations!

Lori Dee · **Today** at 04:41:27 PM

Quote from: CynthiaR on Today at 02:32:31 PM@Lori Dee Yes, I have found a therapist. I've been working with her the past few weeks and will continue to work with her. Honestly, it was her just confirming that what I was experiencing was gender dysphoria, that gave me the courage to finally admit who I am, to the most important person in my life, my wife. I must admit, after some of our recent conversations, I've never felt closer to her. I certainly do want her involved and my intention is to have her attend upcoming sessions as my therapist and her see to be beneficial.

That is so AWESOME!

Alana Ashleigh · **Today** at 06:48:42 PM

Quote from: CynthiaR on Today at 06:38:24 AMWell, I finally did it. I came out to my wife. It was a rough couple of days. But, after giving her time to do her own research and answering every question I could, she's accepted who I am, and is being supportive. I cannot express in words what an absolute angel that woman is. I can only hope that her support continues as she begins to see the woman revealed.

Congratulations. I'm happy that it went well for you.