I just broke up with my boy friend today and im feeling really upset about it. 

I tried to act all 'i dont care' about it' but the second i was on my own i just broke down and couldn't stop crying. Now im just sitting here feeling really sorry for myself and trying not to do something stupid. Because theres a bloody great big river out my window, and i really feel like throwing myself out of it.

Sorry to hear that, hon. Hang in there. 

Sorry about your breakup, the first few days are tough.  Can you call someone close and go out, I find that is the best remedy, going out and not thinking about them.  But crying is good too.

Sorry to hear that, break ups suck! I wish you the best of luck.

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup.  I hope you start feeling better soon.  Just remember that as time passes, so too will your pain.


Take care of yourself,



Rebis

Quote from: Valentine on May 06, 2008, 06:57:43 PM
I just broke up with my boy friend today and im feeling really upset about it. 

I tried to act all 'i dont care' about it' but the second i was on my own i just broke down and couldn't stop crying. Now im just sitting here feeling really sorry for myself and trying not to do something stupid. Because theres a bloody great big river out my window, and i really feel like throwing myself out of it.

Sorry to hear that... Often, a relationship ends up at the woman is hurt, cause as women, we are much more emotional, at least it looks like we're more emotional...

Could you give us a bit detail about what happened between you? how long have you been together? what's the major problem that caused you broke up? Cause sometimes the breakup might be just temporary. You kown when a couple is in fight, they could say something for just hurting earch other, but that might not be the truth in their heart, and after the dust goes down, things can still change... If you can give us a bit more info, maybe we can give you some suggestions to help you out... If you'd like to talk more privately, just feel free to PM me...

Anyway, I know it's not easy at all for you at this moment... really hope to do something that can help you... but remember one thing is sure don't do stupid thing, forget about the river. After all, life is the most important!

hey there.

i also ended my relationship back in january. i still get upset sometimes because i really loved that girl.
still, it's good to cry, talk or even write. i walked around with envy of other couples because i used to wonder why they could be so happy when I'm so miserable. i had to get that envy out of me, otherwise i won't be able to love again in the future.
time will heal, but you have to help it along also. write always helps. it is doing for me.

*huggles*

You were right, i do feel a bit better. I still miss seeing him every day but its getting a bit easier.

Thanks for all your comments.