I know I've brought this subject up before, but I'm am sooo seriously getting frustrated with my nether region. I just can't figure out what I'm doing wrong, where are the darn 'holes' that I keep hearing about, the mounds that I have look like crap, and I'm wearing 2 size four, 4! panties and an xtra small gaff, yet they are still pronounced, I have got to be doing sonmething wrong, but can't for the life of me figure it out!!! 

I'm not trying to sound sick, but could someone produce a pic of where they go or maybe if I post or send a pic of what I am doing, someone could point out what I'm doing wrong.

I really need to figure this out so I can get into a swimsuit (1 piece) for an upcoming contest at a local club. I've been told by several of the performers/regulars there that I could win the gown/dress and more than likely the talent (I can pull off a near perfect Pat Benatar)

Please, please, please I beg of you, someone, anyone...

Kelly

Kelly,

Have you looked here:

https://www.susans.org/wiki/Tucking_and_taping

Best of luck!

Kristi

Yes, I have, and the thing is, I look nothing like that, I look like I have boobs down there

Kelly

I used to have a similar problem, once I realized that they could be popped up like that... and actually doing the poping up thing was painfull at first... couldn't cross my legs or anything with them like that...

Sadly, if you have large danglies... you have large danglies... and the only way to shrink them is to do permanent damage through prolonged popping and or HRT...

As far as that other thing... well... it can be nearly imposable till its properly trained..  In my swimsuits I used to use plastic from a coke bottle to create an additional bounding/insert in the bottoms to keep the proper shape... 

I don't know; personally, I was never able to figure it out.  Until SRS, I've just made it a habit of always wearing long, flowy shirts, the sort you see at Renaissance Festivals.  Maybe it's just not physically possible for some people?

Lia

I haven't been able to find the "holes" either. Maybe they got covered when I had hernia surgery on both sides.

Jaimee

QuoteYes, I have, and the thing is, I look nothing like that, I look like I have boobs down there

I had that look prior to HRT. Since then the size has shrunk and the mounds are not
as pronounced.  Either we are both doing it wrong or some people are just built like that.

I wonder if it is the lack of fat in the pubic region? I'm very skinny and flat down there and
I wonder if that makes them stick out more?

Amanda

Quote from: AlwaysAmanda on May 19, 2008, 12:11:05 PM

QuoteYes, I have, and the thing is, I look nothing like that, I look like I have boobs down there

I had that look prior to HRT. Since then the size has shrunk and the mounds are not
as pronounced.  Either we are both doing it wrong or some people are just built like that.

I wonder if it is the lack of fat in the pubic region? I'm very skinny and flat down there and
I wonder if that makes them stick out more?

Amanda

Yes Amanda you are right about "fat in the pubic region" I had the same problem starting out  and was very uncomfortable. For me after about two years on HRT my lower area above the    troublemakers...  devoloped more flesh or  (Mons pubis) closer to a GG. With the Mons pubis being like this the T's already much smaller in size could be slipped right under on each side into this area, creating perfect pockets. BTW its true that hernia surgery could prevent finding that area (I had double hernia surgery many years prior to starting to transition) which caused my problems, but once I developed that Mons pubis more like a GG has it solved the problem. Only make sure you dont bump that area hard, its very painful. I hope I explained it ok.

gina

Well, poop

This explains it, short of HRT or surgery, I'm gonna be stuck with what it is. Oh, well better kinda flat than any


Kelly