Quote from: Mnemosyne on June 20, 2008, 11:34:02 AM
I should note that I have know some radfems that were pretty darn supportive of T individuals. Most of them were not but a few were. A handful had no problem with FTMs but could not stand and even ridiculed MTFs.
Same here. A few supportive, most not. More like a gang-mentality sets up.
I've been to one radfem discussion group in NJ where that was prevalent. It was on my third visit to the group when someone brought up a friend and her broken relationship with a butch transitioned woman. And no, I didn't speak up and say, "but wait." The criticims were unthinking, ueber-prejudiced, demeaning and just plain ignorant, hateful and dispicable. I will suppose that no one knew my origins as they weren't directing anything at me.
One woman objected and was roundly verbally-abused. I kept my mouth shut and felt like I could imagine how a "pass-for-white" person of color might have felt at a really, really virulent Klan meeting. I cried a lot during the hour-long drive back home. *sigh*
And I suppose someone might think I should have been out, proud and agressively defending my sisters and myself, presenting an example that women with transsexual histories were not who was being lambasted. Think away.
But, I could see no good coming from that in that venue. Until you've been there, you'll never know how palpable the sense of oppression and rampant hatred can feel. I literally left feeling like I had been physically pummeled to the ground and then kicked over and over again. It was simply heart-breaking. All of those educated, intelligent and committed women enraged and as ignorant as though they had been raised by desert-hermits.
Nichole