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How many times have you been in love?

Started by Nero, June 26, 2008, 09:15:58 PM

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How many times have you been in love?

once
twice
three times
four times
five times
six times
seven times or more
never

Nero

yes Nero is quite melancholy and maudlin today

So, tell me. How many times? be honest.
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4Sparky

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kae m

Once.  Two other times I thought it was love, but then I found out what love was like. *sigh*
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tekla

At least five requited (Kacy, Rusty, Annie, Pat, and Carol) and a bunch of other that if not love, were very heavy lust.  Kind of hard for me to separate that sometimes.

Unrequited?  Almost daily.  Sigh.
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JonasCarminis

well... 2 people, one time kindof...?  i voted 2.  i fell inlove with 2 people, and am currently in love with the same 2 people.  so once.  lol
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Lisbeth

Being somewhat arbitrary about how much love constitutes "in love," I will say ten times.  I set the bar pretty high, so I could count more people.  If I set it as high as it goes then the answer is two, one of whom I am in relationship with now.  The other is dead.
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shanetastic

trying to live life one day at a time
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annajasmine

Once and I was probably the only one in love in that relationship. That was 11 years ago.


Anna
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Nero

Quote from: shanetastic on June 27, 2008, 09:56:38 AM
How do you define it Nero?



Pretty simple, really. If my sanity's still intact, I haven't fallen in love. Course, that's the prerequisite, it changes over time the longer you're with that person into a deep love where some sanity is eventually restored.
And I've only ever won the heart of one I loved. Many hearts I didn't love though.
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Kendall

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Lisbeth

Nero, I want you to know that last night something happened to me that other widowed people have experienced, too.  For the first time in some years, Meredith came to me in my dreams.  For perhaps the first time, she did not look dead.  She looked older, like she had been gone for many years, but she appeared healthy and as attractive as I remember her.  Most importantly, she was happy, very happy.  We stood there looking at each other, and then I sensed that she knew.  She knew about Ellie and was very pleased.

Many widowed people have talked about similar dreams where their dead loved one has come to them and given them their blessing for their new relationship.  And now my Dearheart has done that for me, and I cannot stop myself from crying when I think about it.  Someday maybe you can have this happiness, too.
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Jamie-o

Never been in love.  But then, I can still count all the crushes I've had without even having to take off my shoes.  ;)
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iminadaze

Twice for me and currently with the second love.

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kirakero

I count five relationships, but only two were a deep love.  I am currently in that second deep love relationship~
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Drik

Ive been in love so many times I dont wanna start counting.
I usually dont date the people Im in love with tho
(and yes, I mean in love.. cause I have crushes on almost everyone and its not the same)
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whatsername

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Elwood

HONESTLY, never.

But I've had a lot of crushes and fantasies.

I'm GLAD I've never been in love, because a relationship just isn't going to work. I'm too much of a wreck.
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Luc

Four times, and I'm probably being a bit nostalgic because it's my birthday, but I wouldn't give up any of the 3 that didn't work out, because they got me to this point. James, Melissa, Travis, and Aria--- and I never let Aria go. This is my second birthday with my beautiful wife, and I couldn't be happier.

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