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Court Day(for Pam)

Started by Mario, May 23, 2006, 06:59:57 PM

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Mario

Well, Today was the custody hearing for Pam, my SO. As usual Danny her ex is a liar, so therefore attorneys just speak the lies for those who choose to lie. So it turns out that since Pam was the one with the "real" job and the kids are living with Danny in the house she was ordered to pay 644.00 a month in child support. He can stand in a court room and claim that he only makes 400.00 a month because he writes of all this crap for business expences. He is 1099ed so there you are. He makes around 48,000 a year and has all these bogus write offs. Even the judge knew hardly anything was legit, but oh well Pam still gets screwed because she was married to a   freaking pshyco  for 16 years who is self employed and cheats on his taxes. Now, the upside to this day is that Pam's lawyers,they were both there, they know    my situation, and were more than respectful towards  me. They used the correct pronoun, and called me Marco. One of Pam's attorney's is this little old man with owl glasses. Today is the first time I had a conversation with him. I had only spoke with the other guy. A big guy. Anyway, so he sits by me calls me by name, and proceeds to tell me about one of his parallegals that is a man that wants to be a woman and is on hormones. He was telling me how she has changed, her skin is soft and she has grown breasts. He was entertaining. Well that all for now.

                                                          Marco
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Nero

Sorry to hear about that.
This man sounds really awful, and from previous posts, I got the impression that he's poisoning his kids' minds against their mother. This is a bad situation.
Please tell me this man is not getting custody!
Nero
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Mario

Nero,
   Yes, he did get custody. But that was to be expected. Pam and I live in a 1 bedroom apartment, and they are not comfortable yet with me being with their mom. This is because they met me before the begining of transitioning, so they see me as Mary, not Marco. In time of corse they will, mostly when I start not wearing a shirt purposely. For now she gets to see them only twice a week for 3 hours each. My kids on the other hand miss me and tell me they love me. Im not sure what their reaction will be after my top surgery though which is going to be sometime in October.
                                   Marco
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Nero

You're lucky to have children, Marco.
I wish I did, but with my background, I'll probably never be eligible to adopt either.


I don't imagine your surgery should affect your kids at all. They'll soon get used to your going without a shirt. Have your children accepted this? If they tell you they miss you and love you, then they know you're still the same person. But, this is coming from someone who doesn't have kids.
Nero
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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