Quote from: Elwood on August 18, 2008, 04:18:15 PM

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Quote from: Elwood on August 18, 2008, 03:50:07 PMLesbians and bi girls really like me and I'm afraid they like me because I'm a "he-she." I'm a dude with boobs and a vagina.

How do you feel about that then? I dont know your romantic preference

Hmm...I have somewhat of the same.....she-he, more of a lady with a penis...well not exactly but the idea is there ^^ And its the gay and bi boys that find me interesting

Although there are also some lesbians who fancy it it seems...see another thread by me 

I hate that lesbians like me. They shouldn't, because I'm not a girl... and I don't want a girl to be attracted to my mixed parts. I want her to be attracted to my masculinity. Just like I'm attracted to a transgirl's femininity. I'd have nothing to do with her penis, because her penis has got nothing to do with why she is so beautiful to me.

My preference is that I can be with someone who respects my sexual boundaries...

I would really positively be surprised if there was a gay guy who had the balls ( hehe) to say "Yes, I would Like a FtM as a boyfriend, because of his masculinity"

Some gay men just want a lady with a penis :S

WEll perhaps a certain person will come your way....

THe more I think about it the more I think I like girls who have a display of both genders in them...that reallly turns me on....and the same for boys I think. I dont think I could be with someone who is just pure masculine or feminine, in his or her feelings

Yeah. Most of them seem to just care about penises. Their whole lives seem to be about this guy's penis, and how big it is, and how much it cums... Jesus Christ. It makes me hate gay male culture. But I know that not all gay men think that way.

I am not both genders, though. That's the thing. I have aspects of female anatomy... and I hope to change that. In my personality, I'm quite in the middle, but I do not want anyone for a second to think that even a single fiber of my being is a girl. Because that simply is not true.

I wonder how gay men feel about phallo...

I really think it depends on the gay men....an also on their age....those young gay men usually want sexxxxxx and just wont go for anything less than real guy's penis and everything.....older men are generally more, well, they can appreciate the masculinity in men more overall. WEll thats my impression

I dont know about the FtM issue myself, but I guess I can understand it a little....I thought I was MtF for a while but I think -and my gendercounsellor aswell- think Im just better at sitting at the middle, how confusing that sometimes is....but you know, recently I was appreciated so much by someone that I really felt godly because of sitting in the middle

Anyway...if I have to be honest...I dont think Bi men are a good option, I am slightly bi myself and If I would stumble upon a FtM and like him I would still appreciate some femininity, or Ill search for that.....THats just something that came to my mind since the person I currently like is a pretty butch lesbian and she really shows a lot of masculinity with some femininity mixed ..and I like that, and I know a lot of bi guys and androgynous guys like that.....and thats not what you are looking for I guess.

How about women? I know that there are straigth women who have FtM boyfriends

I don't think I've ever been called Asexual but I have had people question my sexuality. Mostly in high school there was a rumor going around that I was a lesbian. I think that was due to a few things (which doesn't make it right and I'm not trying to justify but I think I know why)

After freshman year I didn't have any boyfriends in my high-school and while I was interested in girls, I had a boyfriend at the time but he lived(and still does) out of state so I don't get to see him often. One of my best female friends was very feminine, and I was quite her opposite, and we were always together so I guess people thought maybe we were more than just friends or something

Also I just never acted like a typical female, and of course if you don't act typical then something is wrong with you :O /sarcasm

Quote from: Aiden on August 18, 2008, 04:26:00 PM
I've been hit on by guys in the past, but never really understood why lol.  Father had always told me that if I dress the way I do (masculine/androgen) that would never have a boyfriend.  But being as most of life didn't want one anyways I didn't care lol.

Now he says the ones who hit on me are just interested in my breasts.  I don't know about that or not,  did have one boyfriend (one of few) in past who as soon as he found out I was having reduction surgery it was like he never even knew me to begin with.  *shrugs*

Oh, I still can find women with reduced breasts beautiful...aslong as they are androgyne

And I dont mind kissin, cuddling and moire with a cute FtM...but then again, an FtM generally doesnt want to be cute

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Quote from: Phate on August 18, 2008, 04:34:01 PM
I don't think I've ever been called Asexual but I have had people question my sexuality. Mostly in high school there was a rumor going around that I was a lesbian. I think that was due to a few things (which doesn't make it right and I'm not trying to justify but I think I know why)

After freshman year I didn't have any boyfriends in my high-school and while I was interested in girls, I had a boyfriend at the time but he lived(and still does) out of state so I don't get to see him often. One of my best female friends was very feminine, and I was quite her opposite, and we were always together so I guess people thought maybe we were more than just friends or something

Also I just never acted like a typical female, and of course if you don't act typical then something is wrong with you :O /sarcasm

I really hate that attitude...

"If its different then its wrong!" Bah, makes you feel like youre some kind of scum, something unnatural

But I think god has a special place in its energetic heart for all queer folk!

Quote from: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 04:31:17 PMHow about women? I know that there are straigth women who have FtM boyfriends

Hmm. Yes, it is true that it is for some reason easier to date a straight woman than it is a gay man for FtMs. I know quite a few FtMs with straight girlfriends. It might work out for me. I guess I'm lucky that my sexuality is quite fluid right now.

Somehow I find FtM gayboys cuter though 

Quote from: Aiden on August 18, 2008, 04:26:00 PM
I've been hit on by guys in the past, but never really understood why lol.  Father had always told me that if I dress the way I do (masculine/androgen) that would never have a boyfriend.  But being as most of life didn't want one anyways I didn't care lol.

Now he says the ones who hit on me are just interested in my breasts.  I don't know about that or not,  did have one boyfriend (one of few) in past who as soon as he found out I was having reduction surgery it was like he never even knew me to begin with.  *shrugs*

Yeah some guys (and girls) are shallow like that. More interested in your body than you.

Quote from: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 04:41:45 PMSomehow I find FtM gayboys cuter though 

I am very gay. It's just hard to act out on it without a penis. :[ I don't know how well prosthetics will do. Haven't tried yet.

Quote from: Elwood on August 18, 2008, 05:03:39 PM

Quote from: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 04:41:45 PMSomehow I find FtM gayboys cuter though 

I am very gay. It's just hard to act out on it without a penis. :[ I don't know how well prosthetics will do. Haven't tried yet.

So how about the sexual part then....ehmm..would you mind being bottom or are you a top only? Or a mixture?

Im personally a mixture

Quote from: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 05:08:09 PM

Quote from: Elwood on August 18, 2008, 05:03:39 PM

Quote from: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 04:41:45 PMSomehow I find FtM gayboys cuter though 

I am very gay. It's just hard to act out on it without a penis. :[ I don't know how well prosthetics will do. Haven't tried yet.

So how about the sexual part then....ehmm..would you mind being bottom or are you a top only? Or a mixture?

Im personally a mixture

I believe I too am a mixture of the too. Then again, I'm a virgin. But see, bottom is only an issue for me because I get crushed. A person has got to really be conscious of me and my size; I am quite fragile. On top is probably an issue as well because I'm so light that I'll get nothing done... :/ It's tough being the size if a 15 year old. And looking like one.

But yes, my preference is certainly a mixture of the two. They're both good for me for different reasons.

Quote from: Monty on August 18, 2008, 02:58:45 PM
I'm not asexual, I just have difficulty with my body and right now its hard to see having sex with my body the way it is or even after. I've got a lot of dysphoria when it comes to that.

I've had people question my sexuality, but its usually people who don't really know anything about me.

There are more than a few definitions and reasons for asexuality. Depending on which definition you go by, you are one.

Could always date another trans gay boy LOL

I considered that, but I tend to have conflict with trans guys. Most of them hurt my self esteem pretty badly.

I just want an FtM or a dominator girl who accepts me as their girlfriend. I don't care if they beat the crap out of me physically. As long as I have them to squish my face into when I'm feeling down and someone to talk to.

Part of me sometimes thinks I'd really enjoy being with an MtF. But I'm not sure if it's worth the struggle for her... my mom said "don't be bringing your ->-bleeped-<- freak friends in here." So I asked her if I was welcome. She said, "You're the exception; you're my child." So would I have to deal with my mom hating my wife? Ugh... I'd never put a girl through that. 

Quote from: Elwood on August 19, 2008, 05:37:05 PM
Part of me sometimes thinks I'd really enjoy being with an MtF. But I'm not sure if it's worth the struggle for her... my mom said "don't be bringing your ->-bleeped-<- freak friends in here." So I asked her if I was welcome. She said, "You're the exception; you're my child." So would I have to deal with my mom hating my wife? Ugh... I'd never put a girl through that. 

hon, there are mother in laws that hate their daughter in laws all the time, it happens more often than you would think.  Do what is happy for you and whoever you find, and not worry about your parents.  Its your life not theirs, you need to make it clear to them.

Quote from: Elwood on August 19, 2008, 05:37:05 PM
Part of me sometimes thinks I'd really enjoy being with an MtF. But I'm not sure if it's worth the struggle for her... my mom said "don't be bringing your ->-bleeped-<- freak friends in here." So I asked her if I was welcome. She said, "You're the exception; you're my child." So would I have to deal with my mom hating my wife? Ugh... I'd never put a girl through that. 

Heh. You're lucky. There must be some people like me who just don't care about the in laws as much.

Like... For me... Ectoplasm is thicker than water, not blood...

So soul, if that is made from it, matters more to me.

Well would think you would of moved out before you married her LOL