As for how I chose my name, it was a sore spot for awhile, in that it reminded me of how my story is slightly atypical. My first name came from a character I had on a roleplaying website. I really identified with him, and then started talking to people as him...it really helped me make sense of my feelings, and I've gotten close to the name. My middle name, Elliot (a name that seems to have come up a couple times already), came from looking through a list of names in the appendix of a dictionary from the 70s, waiting for one to speak to me. I'm still unsure about how I'm going to spell it, because it reminds me of both the musician Elliott Smith, and the writer TS Eliot, both of whom I look up to. Two l's and one t is a nice compromise for now. I think Michael Elliot sounds nice...and it fits me. Also, the initials are ME. Unintentional, but it makes me smile. I'm finally me.