Had my day in court today for my name change. The judge was cool, no pronouns, no names. BUT, when there was a misunderstanding about getting the document certified I ended up waiting around for 2 and a half hours for absolutely no reason, the guy from the court room I was in was trying to help me get my file and kept referring to me as "she" BUT, Then when I went to the DMV, the lady there was very gender orientated. She called me Marco and explained to me that you need to get you SS card changed in the system first, then 2 days later they can extract it from the system and then do the drivers licence change.
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