Quote from: Arch on September 26, 2008, 12:22:32 PM

Quote from: Andrew on September 26, 2008, 11:19:37 AM
That's something a lot of us go through -- not wanting to go from being perceived as queer to being perceived as...well, mainstream.

For me, it's been sort of the opposite, since I'm attracted to men. Living as a female with a male lover, I've always felt that I didn't quite belong in the so-called queer community. I felt like a fake. And that hurt like hell.

Now that I'm reclaiming my true gender, I'm also reclaiming my true sexuality. It's a heady feeling.

All of which is a bit off topic, but I wanted to say it nonetheless.

I don't plan to "ransition," but I might go on T only temporarily. I'll have to wait and see.

IME a "female" relationship with a male can be JUST as queer. It's More Likely Than You Think!