It's funny to think back to what use to turn me on. My sexuality has shifted so many times I'm confusing my friends. First I'm gay, then I'm bi, then I'm gay, then I'm straight. After enough shifts I've decided not to worry about it. I like who I like, and I find myself most attracted to gender-benders. I know a fantastic woman who doesn't shave and grows a better beard than I do. Somehow it looks feminine and very cute on her.