Hey im new here and just to make it short and sweet im an m to f transexual who hasnt gone on hormones yet. i have come out to a few friends but not all.  I sure havent come out to my parents yet cause of how they reacted when i said i was gay about 5 years ago.  Of course i now know thats not the case so im just looking for a forum to where i can belong and be myself.  Im basically a gal that loves to talk and i can talk anyone's ears off who cares to listen but i listen too.  Im not conceited or bitchy at all unless someone gets on my bad side which has actually only happened twice in my 22 years of life. anyway i hope everyone on here is nice and i look forward to talking to all you guys and gals.

Hi Dana,

Welcome to our little family. Over  2089 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another sister.

well thanks so much.  I really hope i enjoy it here as much as much as i enjoy several other forums im a member of. 

Hello, Dana, welcome to Susan's.

I think you'll find an overwhelming majority of the people posting here are pretty friendly and  easy-to-get-along-with.

Some of us get snarky, but overall it's a wonderful group.

Please take some time to read The Site Rules and on The Main Page you can discover Links, Chat and Wiki for your use as well. You might also want to go to the "Announcements" section and read the two posts "Post Ranks" and "Reputation Rules" to help you with some knowledge about when you can apply your own avatars, PM, and what those lil stars mean beneath all of our names and how to get them for yourself as well!!

It's great to have you here! Enjoy your stay.

Nichole

Congratulations on finding your way and on preparing yourself to transition. All the very best to you.

Hi A7Guitar
Welcome to Susan's hon. Wow your my kind of friend, I loooooove chatin too. I'm all over this board so I do pray that we cross paths again. I believe you will find many nice people here, and feel free to ask whatever questions you may have.

Have a wonderful day.

Cindy

Welcome Dana!!! You play too (Gtr)?

This will be an awesome place for you and if you ever want to jam (e-mail, verbally, IM;etc) let me know, I love to talk and listen too

-Heather

Welcome Dana,
I am one of the older ladies here so I totally understand what you are going through. If the world then was like it is today, I probably would have had srs.  Only you know what is the right thing to do. I say go for it if that is what you want to do.  I know I just love being a girl.

You will love it here. Many people with lots of support when you need it.

Have a great journey.

Ronda

Hi Dana, Welcome to the forum! I've only been here a couple of days myself, but I've found it to be a great place... lively and full of great topics and nice people.  Hmmm... "can talk someone's ear off " (grin) that sounds like me too. Welcome home!

James

Hello Dana and welcome to Susan's!

Thanks so much for introducing yourself.  Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page.  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay

tink

Hi Dana, I'm Sarah. I am sure you'll find lots of friends here. I know I did. Everyone is just wonderful and full of advice and help. And I'm always here if you need a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. You can talk my ear off anytime, hon.

Love, Sarah

ok well thans for the welcome everyone but i do have a question or 2.  i looked in the faq and apparently i cant send a private message until i hit 18 posts? also why cant i look at other member's profiles? i wanted to learn more about the people i am talking to but i cant. Oh and one other thing i cant send email to some members. i click the link that shows the email and it says you cant send email.  Now i know i can but its going through this site that is somewhat troublesome.  well thanks again and if some of you like to talk feel free to add me to email or instant messenger cause for some reason i cant even check out profiles but anyway thanks.

Someone correct me if I am wrong, but I think the reason new users are restricted as they are is to prevent trolls and those who are not really serious. If you can commit to 18 good posts (and I think Susan pulls posts that are there just to increase the numbers), then most likely, you are serious about being a member here. People post private information in thee profiles, and not just anyone should be able to see that.

Love, Sarah

Unless that rule about the 18 posts has been changed when I came here I posted all 18 posts all in one evening, but the posts were pertinent questions directed to what ever the topic in discussion was.

This will also add to your list of posts when you click on the *Show new replies to your posts.* button at the top of the page.

Yes this rule is in place to make sure as to what your intentions are.

Cindy

ok well it might be a while.  im not gonna just flood the forums with a bunch of stupid posts. ill just well basically post when i think i can help somebody or something but thanks for clearing that up.

Any time sweets. You do what's comfortable with you. Every post you respond to right here on your introduction thread goes towards tallying up your 18 required posts though. If wish to start a conversation about what ever you wish here, I be around to oblige.

Cindy

well i do have another question.....this may be stupid but how do i upload a pic of myself so it takes the place of the pic of shakira?  basically i want people to see who they are talking to cause its kinda weird not being able to put a name with a face.  Also for those of you that see my face just know im pre hormones so i still have that guy face.....also the pic is like 3 years old so i still have facial hair but that will change soon enough.

Hi Dana I believe it works the same way for personal photos, *18 posts* But I agree with you about having a photo to help recognise or place a persons name by including a photo. It works pretty well to with an avatar.

I have a little difficulty remembering a person just by their name alone, but add a photo or an avatar and I'll remember who they are straight out.

Cindy