Labels have the negative value of making smaller boundaries for people

http://abrowngirlgonegay.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/labels-have-the-negative-value-of-making-smaller-boundaries-for-people/
10/24/2008

I don't agree with the first part of this quote. I do care what people call me. The way that I'm perceived is not an accurate representation of me, but I'm jumping into this too fast. Let me rewind...

Yesterday, I posted I got no time for yall. A few of the comments prompted this blog. See the comments below:

Queen: and thats y fems rock! twang and all

Me: Queen, I could (and probably will) write a list of reasons why me and fems don't mix well. I'd take the cockiness of a boi any day. Notice I said a boi and not a stud. There is a difference to me.

Tami: what's the difference between a boi and a stud...inquiring minds want to know.

I will tell you the difference, but please keep in mind this is based on my personal experience. I invite you to disagree with me.