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Do you TALK to people in public restrooms?

Started by Annwyn, October 27, 2008, 07:53:23 PM

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Annwyn

Ladies, do you talk in the ladies room?

What about you dudes?

Girls in the chick's room always see my helmet and jacket and wanna ask me about my bike and what it's like.  And my voice isn't overly high, but since it's so cold lately(friggin 50 degrees fahrenheit, PSYCHO) it cracks a lot.  So sometimes I'll open my mouth and just disguise it w/ a really convincing japanese accent.  Other times I just pretend I can't hear them and walk out, I guess the cold shoulder sort of fits me as a cyclist...   8)

What about you peeps?   ;D
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Janet_Girl

Well of course, that is part and parcel of being a woman.  That is part of our socialization.  Men never talk to one another.  Most of the time it is small chit-chat with other rwomen.
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Hazumu

I think people fool themselves into thinking my voice is female.  I don't seem to ever have a problem with the impromptu conversations -- if I haven't, I haven't noticed.

I'm the one quoting Joe Solomonese.  You can decide if my voice is female enough or not. ;) =K


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Janet_Girl

Sounds very good to me.  And You are a woman who speaks her mind.  :D
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Shana A

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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joannatsf

I do with people I know, like at work or if I'm out with a friend.  Occaisionally I'll exchange with a stranger but usually I just want to get in and get out.
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Suzy

To ignore everyone is an instant out where I live.  I don't go out of my way, but do often say hi, and sometimes have conversations when appropriate.  Sometimes quite interesting things happen.   Always carry some panty liners in case you are asked!  I learned this by experience.  :)

Kristi
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Aiden

On a Guys side.  Haven't used men's room with other men.  But never been a big talker in restrooms, am usually in and out.  Only time is when I get nervous I tend to babble.  Something I need to work on lol

Every day we pass people, do we see them or the mask they wear?
If you live under a mask long enough, does it eventually break or wear down?  Does it become part you?  Maybe alone, they are truly themselves?  Or maybe they have forgotten or buried themselves so long, they forget they are not a mask?
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Suzy

Quote from: Annwyn on October 27, 2008, 11:01:34 PM
pantyliners?  wait wut?

I have been asked to borrow one.  I did happen to have one in the purse I was carrying.  I guess somehow it meant I passed!


Kristi
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Chaunte

Quote from: Karen on October 27, 2008, 08:57:26 PM
I think people fool themselves into thinking my voice is female.  I don't seem to ever have a problem with the impromptu conversations -- if I haven't, I haven't noticed.

I'm the one quoting Joe Solomonese.  You can decide if my voice is female enough or not. ;) =K


HOO-rah! Karen, you rock!

No, I don't talk in the public restrooms.  It's do my business and go back to work.  Small town conservative mentality.  From what I am hearing, I may be one of the first openly out transsexuals where I live.  And between working in a public school AND a supermarket, I am definately out!  :D

Chaunte
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Godot

I've never been in a man's public restroom before but if I ever did I don't think I'd be the starter of any conversation..
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Annwyn

Quote from: Godot on October 28, 2008, 09:54:58 PM
I've never been in a man's public restroom before but if I ever did I don't think I'd be the starter of any conversation..
just go supersaiyan and blast em away?

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deviousxen

Quote from: Aiden on October 27, 2008, 11:09:59 PM
On a Guys side.  Haven't used men's room with other men.  But never been a big talker in restrooms, am usually in and out.  Only time is when I get nervous I tend to babble.  Something I need to work on lol


Men don't talk in the restroom... They fear some kind of gay shark predator if talking is involved. I usually use the stall to avoid it, but honestly... To hell with the mens room.

There is always one guy who is TERRIBLE at aiming and pees EVERYWHERE.

WHY?????

WHY? There is a toilet. I don't want to step in that you ass!

Not to mention people who don't flush. Stuff like that.

All in all a public restroom is one of my biggest nightmares. I desperately avoid the crowded ones and prefer the barnes and noble ones that aren't even known about. I like secret bathrooms. Lol
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Annwyn

#15
Secret bathroomsO_O

W/ unicorns and stuff?

:D
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Luc

Uh, I can't imagine a moment in which I'd want to converse with someone else in the restroom... the point of a room with toilets and sinks is so you can do what you gotta do, wash your hands, and get the heck out. Do you really want to make friends in a place that smells like urine and feces? Chicks (or guys) who think it's a woman's job to socialize in the girls' room, in my opinion, are too obsessed with social mores. Join a book club, for god's sakes.

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cindybc

I talk to anybody that gives me the time of day, I love chit chatting. A chat may start in the bathroom then continue outside in the supermarket or shopping mall, which ever. I will even stop to talk to elders sitting on a bench, other ladies in the isl-ways, and yes, I love talking to little kids, their the cutest. But yea, I talk to anybody in the ladies room if they reciprocate.

Before I transitioned? In the men's room, memory is kind of vague, but I beleive I only just talked to someone else if it was someone I knew. If not, then I just did my business and left. I always preferred talking with the ladies anyway then men, one could count on a more in depth discussions.

Cindy
 
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Jay

In my experiance when I used to use womens toliets women love to stand around and talk in there or 3-4 women will come out of a stall at once.. its like a meeting place.. to b*tch about men as we aren't aloud in there..

But normally no as if I tried to talk to someone in the mens.. I think I would either get beaten up or looked at funny.. But hell I dont want to spend anymore time in there than I have to! Like Sebastien said it
Quotesmells like urine and feces?
Especially more in the mens!


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Rachael

hrm... interesting topic.

Tbh, im usually in such a rush i dont bother. but if its relevant ill chat, or make conversation, complain about something, if i go in with a girlfriend, ill continue whatever conversation we were having. Back when we had exams in jan, about 50 girls were cuing so we all nattered till we got a stall, then just left. Pee is pee.... and why must you have a cold shoulder as a cyclist anwynn? i always found other cyclists to be really friendly and open people... and a japanese accent? ROFL

as for beeing a looser using a single loo toilet... um, half my uni's ones are, im a looser too right? get a life.
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