Sunday, November 09, 2008
Devaluating Your Self Worth

By Monica F. Helms

http://transgroupblog.blogspot.com/2008/11/devaluating-your-self-worth.html

As I get older, I am starting to understand the viewpoint of my parent's generation and those who are older then them. I have to take drugs to combat high cholesterol and high blood pressure, and now I'm experiencing leg and joint problems. But, I take comfort in what my elders like to say, "At least you're still alive." I'm thankful for that.

In the recent passage of the anti gay marriage amendment in California, Proposition 8, I have seen literally hundreds of gay and lesbian people make statements to the effect of saying they feel a total loss of equality. In a state that has passed every single protection they can for LGBT people, including ones no other state has elsewhere, they see the passage of Prop 8 as a death nail to their total equality. Yet, they don't seem to appreciate all they do have that makes them far more equal and protected then any other LGBT person in the country. They should be thankful for that.

Maybe it's time to remind Californians what they do have, "straight" from the Equality California website. Since there were so many pieces of legislation, I only listed the bill number and the title. If you wish to read the details on each bill, please click on the link to the year.