$70 (approx.) to the person who's going to beat us into nonconformity? Hmm, you might want to pay more if you want them to do a thorough job...masochist.

What's the safe word!!?
Eh-hem.
Confidence is key. If you are comfortable with yourself, then it will be easier for other people to be comfortable with you. If you're uncertain, they will be too. Also, it's better to be up front with people.