Gennee,
It really isn't me making the difference. It's all those wonderful people who have accepted me (and us). Life is great when you can wear a dress, be happy, and not be judged because you are a little different.
Of course, I am very careful about the venues and the activities I choose when I crossdress. I think one of the reasons my experiences have been so positive is that I don't push the enevelope and I try not to be imposing.
Hugs,
Sally