Quote from: Melissa on June 30, 2006, 04:36:47 PM
It does take several hours each day of my time. I skip certain threads if I find them boring. Some threads I seek first because I'm interested. Many I just scan over. If I have something else planned, I may not get on here. It kind of works like that.
P.S. In case you're wondering, this is one of those threads I scan.
Melissa
Thanks Melissa, I respect your thoughts. I've noticed that you always have something wise to say, and it is usually brief and to the point.
Don't get me wrong, I'm having fun reading these posts, but it takes away from my free time. Working full time right now [cannot afford to visit this site at work], trying to maintain a home and 10 acres and working on the details of this transition doesn't leave a lot of extra time. I'm not ready to share this site with Rosie so that leave me jumping on for 20 minutes here and there...
Quote from: wickham_kendra on June 30, 2006, 05:34:12 PM
Yes, thats the way to do it. Check the posts since last on, scann those interesting, reply if have something to add or say about it. And sometimes create a new one.
Kendra: Keep up your replies, I like hearing from you and I must admit I always enjoy seeing your avatar. I am really attracted to girls... (does that make me a lesbian?)
In reading your website(s) it sounds like you have a wonderful SO. I also work hard to keep her happy, even if it means foregoing something I want. Being too compulsive and demanding is probably more damaging than anything else we do.
Posted at: June 30, 2006, 08:12:22 PM
I did write my wife a note last night and gave it to her early this morning. Mostly, I asked her to talk about this openly. She read it this morning came in, gave be a kiss and went back to sleep.
Here is a small portion of the letter dealing with the "common questions".
Because you might not ask the common questions here are my "Answers to the common questions and concerns":
1. No, I'm still the same person you have been with for all this time. Nothing is different, you just know more about me than before.
2. No, I am not gay. I love the female form and men do NOT turn me on. [not that there is anything wrong with that]
3. No, I don't want to become a girl. No sex changes please. I like playing the part sometimes but it's a lot of work. I wouldn't mind working on my figure. Losing ten pounds around my waist would be nice.
4. Am I going to grow breasts? While the thought of 'having my own' does appeals to me it would be really hard to explain to others. In a perfect world I'd say YES. A nice set of "B-" cup breasts would be great. The honest answer would be, someday maybe but not without your expressed approval, your encouragement and your help...
5. No, I'm going to start dressing up every day forever. From past experience this desire to dress runs in streaks. A few weeks or months and it is then gone for months or years.
(maybe a bit of a white lie, but i don't know the future)
