really all i have to say is that i fill feminine and that is what matters not what other people say,its different in everyone

   

Gorgeous Post Wendy
I'm a very young 56 going on 25. We are the age group that knows how a girl should party!

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Cindy James

Feminine? Hard to define.

A feeling, a style, a knowing and an attitude.

Not a way of looking or acting.

Although, if you have the first four no matter the last two they will show as "feminine" to anyone you're around.

Nichole

Your mother possibly sees you as her son still so won't see or maybe just won't accept any of the feminine behaviour you (may) show? Maybe she's trying to hold on to anything she can of what she thought you were? By saying those things she's probably trying to confirm that to herself, that you are (in her mind) a boy not a girl. By saying you are feminine she would be accepting you are female but maybe she isn't ready to let go of what she thought was her son. You know? I would imagine you are more feminine than she lets her self see or lets on to you. I think the main thing is that you be happy And just because you are female it doesn't mean you have to be super feminine, not all girls are. What your mother should understand is you are being yourself not a copy of any other female. I could be wrong but it's just my thoughts.