Personally, I am a West Coast girl. Oregon is cool, for the most part is very trans-friendly. Portland is to the Trans community as San Fransisco is to the Gay Community, and there is a large Lesbian population here. We have many trans doctors and therapists. Two of the best are Trans themselves, and we even have our own GRS doctor. The weather is reasonable, for the most past.
Summers are warm, not to hot. The Winters are mild, except this year we are getting a snow storm. But that is rare. Washington is so so, California is neat. Cindybc is north of me and may be one day I will go up and see her and Wing Walker. But right now, $$$ is tight. But who knows.
And with our new President is might even get better for the GLBT community.
IMHO,
Janet