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Started by findingreason, December 19, 2008, 05:01:03 PM

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findingreason

Hi,

So after starting and stopping HRT I'm pretty sure I'm not transsexual but it doesn't mean it ends I guess :-\.

I think I maybe androgyne. I don't think I could take the physical changes induced by HRT, but I also found out it doesn't mean gender issues end there. I feel like I identify with the male gender at sometimes and female other times. Or I will identify as something different entirely that I don't know exactly what I am really. Or I will identify as a guy and a girl. I realize somedays I will be fine as male, other days I'd rather be a girl.

ARGH it's confusing. I wish I could be one or other but it seems more like I am somewhere smack in the middle. I sometimes really dislike gendered anything altogether, it's such a frustration that I wish didn't exist.

So, the question is, do other androgynes know what I am talking about?


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Pica Pica

Ohh Yes.

Welcome to the club.

Gooble Gabble, Gooble Gabble
'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Constance

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So, the question is, do other androgynes know what I am talking about?
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Ohh Yes.
Pica pretty much summed it up. Welcome to our ranks.

RebeccaFog

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tekla

Me too, I did a year of RLT and then pulled back about 8% or so, enough not to do HRT or SRS, but not enough to 'make me a man' either.  Its possible to find a level, but for each of us, we are making it up as we go, so its a question of the possible, not the path.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Eva Marie

Howdy, been there and had the same thoughts and feelings. Welcome to the club  :D
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Shana A

Quote from: findingreason on December 19, 2008, 05:01:03 PM
So, the question is, do other androgynes know what I am talking about?

Yes, all too well! I did RLT for over a year, and since then have settled into a "no man's land" (pun absolutely intended ;D) between binary gender. I am simply me, whatever gender that might or might not be, and for the most part that is OK. I do have good days and bad days with this. I do believe it would easier to be one or the other. But that doesn't seem to be a proper fit for me. Sometimes I do think of transitioning again. If the time seems right... I will.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Nicky

Hey findingreason. Sounds like you still have some figuring out to do. Give an androgyne handle a go and see if it fits. Come play in the forest.

also take a look at the other non-binary ways of being.

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Kaelin

Gender identity can be fluid, and/or it may be that (gender) expression is fluid.  Be open to lots of possibilities, even ones that have not been "common" here.
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6thsomatic

Its like thats Stealers Wheel song.

Stuck In The Middle With You.
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Eva Marie

Quote from: 6thsomatic on December 20, 2008, 10:42:00 PM
Its like thats Stealers Wheel song.

Stuck In The Middle With You.

or perhaps "did you ever have to make up your mind" by the lovin' spoonful.
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Jaimey

If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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Constance

"Something's looking at me and I think it's got a crown
It's not a King or a Queen, but something in between
Now I'm only hoping that I'm living in a dream
It's just a dream"

Kinkly

yes I think most people around here know what you are talking about its a very common experance amoung androgynes
I don't want to be a man there from Mars
I'd Like to be a woman Venus looks beautiful
I'm enjoying living on Pluto, but it is a bit lonely
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RebeccaFog

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Jaimey

Quote from: Rebis on December 31, 2008, 11:48:47 AM
We are Anomalies.   ;)

Maybe you are, Reb.  >:-) 

Feel the love, Reb.  :-*

:laugh:
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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RebeccaFog


I like feeling Love.


why do I feel a compulsion to change my name to
"The Trickster"?
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Shana A

Quote from: Rebis on January 01, 2009, 06:28:07 PM
why do I feel a compulsion to change my name to
"The Trickster"?

Go for it! What shall we call you for nickname... The?  ;) :laugh:

Z
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Jaimey

Reb the Trickster.  You sound like some historical figure.  Maybe someone who caused a riot or mutiny or something like that.  :P
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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RebeccaFog

I'm definitely the type to cause a riot or mutiny, but I would instigate it and let others do the work.



Rebis the Trickster     
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