In my dreams my sex is inconsistent, and largely depends on the circumstances. Actually My entire identity is pretty fluid when I dream, and sometimes I am dreaming that I am someone else entirely, with a different past, present, and future. I once dreamed that I was a very young, small blond girl picking up dead rats from an abandoned sewer, so that my adopted family could sell them for supplies. In real life, I am tall with dark, brown, curly hair, male-bodied, and I have had a somewhat comfortable life, financially, with no need to scavenge for rats. I have also dreamed that I was a female commander of some rebel military contending with aliens from another dimension. so really it''s just kinda weird all around.