Why is it, gay guys fall for me? Right now I look very stone butch but
I still have this chest..I think the guys can obviously see it,that it's not male, looking ? They sit right next to me,realize my voice isn't entirely male, and yet  they still hit on me as if I was a gay guy, even after when I tell them I am not born a male, I lack the 'plumbing' they don't believe me..They seem to be in denial or something..Why is that?
Do any other FtM guys,without taking T, without a penis (even when they are not packing)  get hit on by gay guys thinking,no insisting they are a guy tioo? Is it a pheremone thing or what? I'm just curious as to why this happens.

Well Im not a FtM So I apologize for answering your question...but I get hit on by gay guys too I think they know your a TS so they see this small wierd insignificant chance to be somewhat hetero and still enjoy there gay sex life ....Best of both worlds...I get that a lot! but Ill be sure to ask the next gay male who hits on me why! Yeah Im bold!

And maybe they think your a MtF? Most people don't even realize there are 2 types of transsexuals MtF FtM they just assume "hey TS must be MtF"

Or maybe your just that damn sexy that everyone wants you!

Chynna

LOL... I don't think so...
Never feel all that sexy .
I dunno even really what it means..(I know this sounds weird.)

It seems to me being 'sexy' is like some kind of performance or presentation and I think I am not good at it,I feel awkward and self consious.It's very uncomfortable when I put myself together with "sexy".
People who hit on me do it out of the blue.It's kinda starteling. For me sex is very far away from my mind most of the time  so I have no clue what is 'sexy' means  for me and what isn't ..or even how to define what that means .

I feel  stupid when I say these things ( what does sexy mean?) because it seems like the whole world knows or perceives  something I don't  and I will never understand it until I figure it all out somehow. What I am percieving  or at least understand sexy  enough to understand the meaning of it.For myself and enough of what other people mean  by sexy to grok it..

I hope I made some sense here.
Thanks Chyna...

What sexy is.......
Sexyness is confidence.....
Sexyness is style which I know you have by your pics you posted
Sexyness is grace & elegance and the way you carry yourself.......
Sexyness is intelligence.......
Sexyness is individualatiy and your own sense of mind and what everything is about
(another one I know you have! )
Sexyness is being able to stand in a doorway of a room and people notice you before you even walk into the room
Sexyness is well you boo

Seems you've acquired a skill that you didn't even knoew ya had!

Chynna White

Quote from: Chynna on June 28, 2006, 10:16:02 AM


And maybe they think your a MtF? Most people don't even realize there are 2 types of transsexuals MtF FtM they just assume "hey TS must be MtF"


Chynna

Funny you mention that. That's what most people think when I tell them I'm trans. My boyfriend, before he finally got the guts up to ask me out, thought that I might have been MtF...I was sorta flattered really, to know that I wasn't "passing" as a girl the whole time even though that's what I presenting as! Whee!