I agree, but if they let me discourage them, then it may not be for them.
I don't judge anyone. If there were no weapons in the military, I'd be happy there myself. My favorite time was in basic training. After that, it all sucked. I would honestly prefer 3 years of basic traing to one month of time after that. Now that you mention it, I think I could live with 3 months of basic each year, then 9 months of civilian life. But if there's a chance of actually having to kill someone or just watch others get killed, then screw it.