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Do video games provide a clue that you are truly "female" brained?

Started by Just Mandy, February 13, 2008, 01:27:28 PM

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Did you ever (or do you) like to play video games?

No, I don't enjoy them
27 (32.5%)
Sometimes
45 (54.2%)
No, I don't enjoy them
11 (13.3%)

Total Members Voted: 23

Hiddendress

i have always liked a good video game but thats me. But i have started to go towards Role playing more the past few years.
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Vexing

Quote from: Emme on December 19, 2008, 05:16:59 PM
I love playing RPGs, but I jsut can't deal with online RPG servers, like for WoW.  The only fun thing is when you see a gold spammer and you counter with "Well Met, Peddler of Gold!  Mayest I violate thine anus with mine habanero pepper?"  That's actually pretty fun.

More fun:
When someone is begging for gold, open trade window and put in say, 800g.
Then walk away from your computer without hitting 'accept' and have a shower, have a smoke, make a coffee, go to the toilet, make a snack.
Bet they'll still be there waiting for you to hit accept when you come back 20min later.  ;D
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soldierjane

Quote from: Emme on December 19, 2008, 05:16:59 PM
I love playing RPGs, but I jsut can't deal with online RPG servers, like for WoW.  The only fun thing is when you see a gold spammer and you counter with "Well Met, Peddler of Gold!  Mayest I violate thine anus with mine habanero pepper?"  That's actually pretty fun.

Right-click Report FTW  ;D
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Gracie Faise

I am a hard core gamer and game design is my major in college. To say I'm not a woman for it is pretty much a slap in the face to me and all my (cis)female gamer counterparts, pretty much.
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Rachel

im am female and there is no denying that, and i play video games.  I dont get addicted mind you, i just play em when im in the mood, play violin here and there, surf the net, i vary it or it gets boring.  But to generalize that women like games less or get addicted to them less, that is a gross miscalculation.  There are fewer women gamers because that is what society depicts, men play video games, women do fashion, and there are too many girls trying to fit into social norms.  Ive met many women who play warrior types, healers, a whole slew of different types, we are all different, and to make generalizations like this is kind of silly, or even to study it just seems silly and pointless.  We are all different and we all do different things, and our gender these days usually has little to do with it, because the gender lines are getting closer together every year.

I am also a Comp Sci major with the intention to go into game design, i have fun with them, I play role playing games, strategy games (whoever said they havent found any good strategy games is sheltered, i can name a ton off the top of my head, Civilization II test of time, Age of Empires 2, Warhammer 40k Dawn of war (and its accompanying expansions), Starcraft (best ever, especially after the brood war expansion),Age of Empires (cheesey but awesome), Age of Mythology, Kingdoms) the list goes on.  I do play the occasional first person shooter, but they are rarely fun in solo mode and all the cheaters online, and the gamer kids who just badmouth everyone are annoying so i avoid them usually, they are just not fun that often except with close friends.
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Sephirah

With the multi-million pounds/dollars spent on games budgets nowdays, and the processing power/graphical capability of the platforms, a lot of games are becoming more like interactive movies, with bigger emphasis placed on the emotional attachment and ethical choices of a character than just who has the biggest sword/gun. Mass Effect and Fallout 3 are games I've played recently that are both examples of this. It's the moral/ethical choices you make and how that effects the world the character inhabits which is given a higher standing than purely how tough you are and how many foes you dispatch.
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Zelane

Uh sorry but "games are for kids or guys" both are just stereotypes and bad old ones.

Im a girl gamer and actually good. I love RPGs due to the story (anyone remember Secret of Mana? I cried on the Tree scene T_T) also strategy (Starcraft ftw) And honestly I dont see whats wrong with liking games.

I suck at fighting games but meh. And my boyfriend likes that we share one hobby.
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Rachel

Quote from: Leiandra on January 13, 2009, 12:01:05 PM
With the multi-million pounds/dollars spent on games budgets nowdays, and the processing power/graphical capability of the platforms, a lot of games are becoming more like interactive movies, with bigger emphasis placed on the emotional attachment and ethical choices of a character than just who has the biggest sword/gun. Mass Effect and Fallout 3 are games I've played recently that are both examples of this. It's the moral/ethical choices you make and how that effects the world the character inhabits which is given a higher standing than purely how tough you are and how many foes you dispatch.

thank you for a perfect example, as they get more immersive, its not just violence and all that

in fact i saw a youtube vid from some news show, and they were talking about the mass effect Sex Scene, and all the reporters are like "how is this effecting our kids, they are treating women like objects, and being violent."  They say all this by seeing one vid, and making a generalization without knowing anything, they dont actually do research, they think "sex=wrong for kids" and they wonder why kids have no idea how to treat women, or are scared of sex, why all these nerds exsist that are scared of it, its not the video games fault, its the parents fault for teaching their kids to be idiots just like them, and telling them that sex/masterbation/imagination are wrong.



no surprise its fox who are acting like this though, so i guess i cant exactly be pissed, they are always like this with their conservative crap
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cyanide

frag dolls (mentioned before in previous post i think).

though, i think this is as valid as the CNN post. but IMO, liking games does not have anything to do with gender.

wanna go even more crazy?  how about ggirls liking D&D ;)   


then of course, about 80% of the game usually consists of several, if not, one scantly-clad-bouncing-busty-thing-long-legs-doe-eyed-perminent-makeup female character. soo.. hmm..
" no really, mom, joan of arc wore bikini armor to battle... "
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Sephirah

Quote from: Rachel on January 13, 2009, 12:15:35 PM
Quote from: Leiandra on January 13, 2009, 12:01:05 PM
With the multi-million pounds/dollars spent on games budgets nowdays, and the processing power/graphical capability of the platforms, a lot of games are becoming more like interactive movies, with bigger emphasis placed on the emotional attachment and ethical choices of a character than just who has the biggest sword/gun. Mass Effect and Fallout 3 are games I've played recently that are both examples of this. It's the moral/ethical choices you make and how that effects the world the character inhabits which is given a higher standing than purely how tough you are and how many foes you dispatch.

thank you for a perfect example, as they get more immersive, its not just violence and all that

in fact i saw a youtube vid from some news show, and they were talking about the mass effect Sex Scene, and all the reporters are like "how is this effecting our kids, they are treating women like objects, and being violent."&nbsp; They say all this by seeing one vid, and making a generalization without knowing anything, they dont actually do research, they think "sex=wrong for kids" and they wonder why kids have no idea how to treat women, or are scared of sex, why all these nerds exsist that are scared of it, its not the video games fault, its the parents fault for teaching their kids to be idiots just like them, and telling them that sex/masterbation/imagination are wrong.



no surprise its fox who are acting like this though, so i guess i cant exactly be pissed, they are always like this with their conservative crap

Actually, that scene took me totally by surprise. It was pretty damn raunchy, particularly if you're playing as a female Commander Shepard and choose to develop a romantic attachment with the Asari crewmember (also female). Certainly it went further than any game has ever gone before.

I'd post it here, but it's probably against the rules. Needless to say I almost choked on my coffee, lol. It's not done distastefully, though. There is a lot of... build up and plot attached to it.

Oh, and maybe it was the European version I was playing, but there wasn't "full digital character nudity". Not far off, granted, but like I said, it wasn't done distastefully. In my opinion anyway.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3
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Rachel

Quote from: Leiandra on January 13, 2009, 02:04:23 PM
Quote from: Rachel on January 13, 2009, 12:15:35 PM
Quote from: Leiandra on January 13, 2009, 12:01:05 PM
With the multi-million pounds/dollars spent on games budgets nowdays, and the processing power/graphical capability of the platforms, a lot of games are becoming more like interactive movies, with bigger emphasis placed on the emotional attachment and ethical choices of a character than just who has the biggest sword/gun. Mass Effect and Fallout 3 are games I've played recently that are both examples of this. It's the moral/ethical choices you make and how that effects the world the character inhabits which is given a higher standing than purely how tough you are and how many foes you dispatch.

thank you for a perfect example, as they get more immersive, its not just violence and all that

in fact i saw a youtube vid from some news show, and they were talking about the mass effect Sex Scene, and all the reporters are like "how is this effecting our kids, they are treating women like objects, and being violent."&nbsp; They say all this by seeing one vid, and making a generalization without knowing anything, they dont actually do research, they think "sex=wrong for kids" and they wonder why kids have no idea how to treat women, or are scared of sex, why all these nerds exsist that are scared of it, its not the video games fault, its the parents fault for teaching their kids to be idiots just like them, and telling them that sex/masterbation/imagination are wrong.



no surprise its fox who are acting like this though, so i guess i cant exactly be pissed, they are always like this with their conservative crap

Actually, that scene took me totally by surprise. It was pretty damn raunchy, particularly if you're playing as a female Commander Shepard and choose to develop a romantic attachment with the Asari crewmember (also female). Certainly it went further than any game has ever gone before.

I'd post it here, but it's probably against the rules. Needless to say I almost choked on my coffee, lol. It's not done distastefully, though. There is a lot of... build up and plot attached to it.

Oh, and maybe it was the European version I was playing, but there wasn't "full digital character nudity". Not far off, granted, but like I said, it wasn't done distastefully. In my opinion anyway.

i saw it too, but i found it was no more raunchy than any movie out today, it was very tasteful and showed the relationship and connection of the characters, nothing in that was treating her like an object.  In fact, that showed more caring and respect for the other person than most relationships between these so called "normal" people.  In fact most R rated films are more raunchy than that by far, and even 17 year olds can watch those, and that one woman said Mass Effect deserves a Adult Only rating, its just rediculous.  I understand they are looking out for their children, and they want their children to be raised right, but sheltering a child is no way to do it.  If you shelter someone all their life, they will just be slapped in the face when real life gives them a hello.  You can teach what is right and wrong, but to shelter is just moronic, and is counterproductive.
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wolfgirl

I'm a girl who likes video/computer games, and I like a variety of them. I'll admit that I don't really like shooters, but that's mostly because I am terrible at them. My favorite games are mmorpgs (massive-multiplayer-online-role-playing-games).  Right now my favorite is a game called Guild Wars, but the reason that I enjoy playing this kind of game is interesting.
In online games of this sort, you can choose to play as a boy or a girl. I always play as a girl, and I interact with other players as female. I chat with other girls about life, boys, relationships, etc. Sometimes I give boys advice about how to be a better gentleman. Sometimes I just like to sit by the bon fire and dream of things gone by. For me the game becomes a place where I can really feel like I am excepted as a girl without the chance of being confronted, assaulted, or abused in any way.  I often play as a warrior-type/ranger, and I like to imagine that I am presenting a strong female role model who is powerful enough to save the day, just as well as any man can.
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Laura Eva B

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Rachel

well i could get a life, but in my age group that involves going out, partying, drinking, and having sex with anything that walks.

I do have a life though, I'm a student, I play violin and go to recitals and concerto's hosted by the UNI school of music, i have hobbies and a real job, good friends.

Playing video games in no way means you don't have a life, it just means that you have fun doing certain things on a console/PC.  It is just another hobby for me at least, not everyone who plays video games are addicted junkies that have no life.

Are you saying your life is more full because you do activities that are in some way better because they aren't video games.  I do hope your being sarcastic as a joke, if you are thats very funny -nods- love the joke, but if not its just insulting and rude.

But on to more pleasant discussions:

When you have the choice, I always play as female as well, because I find myself incapable of roleplaying a male, i am simply not one and don't understand the thought processes of one.  It also gives me a means to present as myself without prejudice of the people around me and thinking im male just because I was born so.  Its nice to have people treat me like what I am, though that phase might go away a bit once im done transitioning because i would not need that feeling anymore, but who knows.
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soldierjane

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Gracie Faise

Quote from: Laura Eva B on January 15, 2009, 06:50:25 PM
Video games ...  ??? ...

Pleeese ... get a life  !!!

laura x

If you enjoy the leisurely activity of the occasional video game you're just in denial about being a shut in who has no friends! GET A LIFE GAMERS! GET A LIFE!
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wolfgirl

Quote from: soldierjane on January 16, 2009, 08:32:29 PM
Quote from: Laura Eva B on January 15, 2009, 06:50:25 PM
Video games ...  ??? ...

Pleeese ... get a life  !!!

laura x

boo go back to yer knitting, grandma :P

Sometimes I knit while playing a game ^_^

But seriously Laura.. going online and posting in a forum, made of oppressed minorities, just to tell them that you think a harmless choice which they have made is distasteful?  ??? Get A Life.

EDIT: My role model ^_^ jk http://misterhook.tripod.com/wallpapers/jora2.jpg
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Roll90

I've basically been playing video games for as long as I can remember.  I dominated Mega Man X and Donkey Kong Country in my young super nintendo days.  I don't think this is remotely true.  Last year Metal Gear Solid 4 had about 8 of its 18 hours of content were cinematic videos telling an amazing plot, and that's just one example.  I think anybody who loves movies has potential to love video games, and it is simply the bad or nerdy image cast upon it that stops anybody, primarily girls, from getting involved in gaming.  Also, for the record, I think that with this generation of consoles video games have now excelled movies and TV in their potential to tell a truly great story.
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lizard

i play games quite a bit.  Both computer and Xbox.  Also one of the best things is getting together with friends, playing rock band, and hanging out.  Food, drink and games.  Mrs lizard also is a game fiend, tho more RPGs and such than FPS.  Shes like one of the top players in our warcraft guild.  She tends to get a bit more addicted than i do. 

Also to say gamers need to get a life... well its just another form of entertainment.  Sure people take it to the extremes where its detrimental to other areas of your life but in the end, its just like any other form of entertainment.
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