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I also find it strange that you are so caught up on binding - Of the female-bodied people in my family, I have the smallest breasts with 32DD - I don't care what you say, you're lying if you say you can hide them entirely and still a) breathe and b) not wear clothes 42 sizes too large.

You asked what would help you pass better. I told you what I thought.  You can't hide them entirely, but they can be hidden more than your photos show both by binding properly and dressing in ways that don't show off your chest.  You do not need to wear clothing 42 sizes too big, you just need to be strategic.

Be miffed, dude, but you asked for input.  When you open yourself up to that sort of criticism, you have to be prepared to not like everything you hear.

what you said would have been find IF you'd ask in any form a polite way.  You didn't.

"Have you heard about T-Kingdom binders?  I found that the velcro one worked best for me."

instead of

"you need a binder.  You could never tell I had breasts before surgery."

Common decorum is important, even online.

I said, "you need either a binder or a better binder."

I found a binder that worked for me, suggested you also try T-Kingdom because my 36DDD's were damn near invisible.  Between the binder and some strategic layers, you couldn't see them unless you were looking.  And no, I didn't have magical boobs that laid flat- I had fibrous monsters.

I don't sugar coat either IRL or on the internets.  You asked for an opinion, I gave you a polite one.  Hell, i even gave you a CENSORED opinion.