I'm actually trying to gain weight (162 lbs... but I'm 6'2"), as I've decided it'll make my face look more feminine if I can fill in the cheek area a bit.
You know you've really lost it when you're intentionally shoveling down ice cream, as a genetic male, in hopes you'll gain weight and look "softer" and more feminine. But I've seen pics of myself a few years ago when I weighed more like 175-180ish, and I definately looked better (in the face anyway).
The annoying thing is every ounce I gain seems to go right to my tummy. Another perk of middle age