I dont know really how to word this but i will try my best.

a few weeks ago i was sitting down thinking about my fem self and my life and i was trying to figure out how i could live as my fem self full time and then i started to think about how others think its wrong like my parents do and they dont want me to do it.I then asked myself what if i was ment to be female but i was born male and if thats the case then how can i help having the feelings that i do and why should i have to hide what i do because my parents dont agree with c/d. I just think people should be more accepting.I know if i had a choice of what gender i was when i was born then i would have chosen to be female and if that happened i wouldnt have any problem in socierty.

Just a Thought

Let me know what you guys think anyway

Quote from: tammygirl2 on July 13, 2006, 09:41:56 AM
I know if i had a choice of what gender i was when i was born then i would have chosen to be female and if that happened i wouldnt have any problem in socierty.

That's my thinking exactly.

It's infuriating to realize that ALL of my problems with this... ALL of them... are caused by in intolerant society (or my letting my fears of such dictate my life). I don't have any doubts about HOW I want to live, only about IF I'd be allowed or able to do it. Will my wife leave me? Will people laugh and point? Will I lose my job? Will I get beat up? All external concerns.

Quote from: Kate on July 13, 2006, 10:27:44 AM
Will my wife leave me?

Possibly.

Quote from: Kate on July 13, 2006, 10:27:44 AM
Will people laugh and point?

Probably not most people.  I have found that even some people who are obviously TS can live life without too much difficulty.

Quote from: Kate on July 13, 2006, 10:27:44 AM
Will I lose my job?

Maybe, but you could always find another one.

Quote from: Kate on July 13, 2006, 10:27:44 AM
Will I get beat up?

Probably not at your height.

All valid concerns, however we tend to see these as worse than they really are.

Melissa

Quote from: Melissa on July 13, 2006, 12:05:12 PM
Possibly.Probably not most people.  I have found that even some people who are obviously TS can live life without too much difficulty.Maybe, but you could always find another one.Probably not at your height.

All valid concerns, however we tend to see these as worse than they really are.

Melissa

Echo what she said for me!

Chynna

Quote from: Melissa on July 13, 2006, 12:05:12 PM
however we tend to see these as worse than they really are.

LOL, *exactly* what my boss said to me this morning when I said I was surprised he didn't notice how beat up my face is from the laser.

I detect a trend

(of course the 1" thick layer of DermaBlend helps too).