If I wanted to have sex with a "post Op transgender lady" would that make me gay??? ANd has one ever been with one?



Read the 'answers' to this 'question'.

Yay

a whole load of feelgood answers coming from the general populous

Just when I thought it was safe to go outside I find out the world is still filled with kooks.

Julie

Wonder if any of these respondees are aware of what Obama is signing into law?

Lauren
With your mind, you will survive.  Only through your heart can you live!

Just a suggestion--

You could leave an 'answer' (under a pen name, of course).  It might be fun to pwn the topic...

=K 

Quote from: Lauren5158 on February 01, 2009, 05:35:06 PM
Wonder if any of these respondees are aware of what Obama is signing into law?

Lauren
With your mind, you will survive.  Only through your heart can you live!

i think some are, not all the responses were bad, some stick up for the lady, i know i would. as long as she's a lady that makes me happy!!!

O, those comments weren't so very bad, only a couple who seemed bat-crap moronic and that's not bad on the webz.

I mean this thread was almost enlightened in its responses, especially that hazumu person!! 

If the world started looking more like the responders to that question I'd imagine we'd all be just more than a bit better off than we are now.

Nichole

Some of the answers on there are really supportive mainly from women though. I think its harder for men because of the whole "gay" thing.. *sigh*

However this one is my favourite:-

QuoteIf it feels good, DO IT. ->-bleeped-<- what anybody else thinks.

lol I laughed at that one too Jay

No. Actually it sounds exciting. I'm a CD. When I lived overseas it was not uncommon for me to have sex with transgender women. I would consider myself bisexual. I enjoyed some of them even though they were similar to me below the waist. If you desire someone and they are good to you it shouldn't matter. Your own personal happiness is the most important thing.

QuoteJust for the record, our brains, not our bodies, decide who we are. Your height, weight, hair color, eye color or what's between your legs all have no bearing on who you are at the time of birth. Nurture may have influenced our development but nature determines personality and that includes gender.

The woman you've described has felt female all her life. She was born with a birth defect. She corrected that. Now she can live her life as she's always needed.

Just because Jerry Springer makes a mockery of people who are less fortunate doesn't make ignorance fashionable.

This was the best response IMO

The only reason I don't find a TG companion now is because I live in Utah and there are a few but not many. There are dating services who would find me companion here close. However, finding a sex partner online seems wrong to me. It is as though they are "cyber pimps." How disgusting!

I answered it, under a pen name.

QuoteMost of you that are so against having sex with a post-op transsexual woman, would never know it unless she told you. And until you know a bit more about GID, you might want to quit showing your ignorance.

Janet

Well if she was post op hopefully youd consider that she is no longer transgendered. she is woman. I mean I feel trans because of my little thing down there but once it's gone I will consider myself a woman and not a T-Girl. It's more like Lesbian fantasies or tri sexual or something ..Please dont confuse me! Arrgh where's R2 when I need her or him or whatever you are R2?
"Bllepe beeijr whiiell;lllll."
Oh your an Astro mech droid who considers herself to be a girl. Yes I know you miss C3po but I switched him, off.

And a plug for Leith, who made this video: http://www.youtube.com/user/riftgirlblog

~Alyssa

You must try it. Gay for a Day might be fun!

I cant stand the word Gay. To me its a male conotation. More like Lesbians..Would be better.

Similar to Janet, I responded to this query, using my true screen name. 

QuoteTo first answer your question: No, it does not make you gay!

If you do decide to have sex with this lady, will it be for something physical or emotional?

Where did you get knowledge of the LADY being a "post-op transgender"? As others have indicated, the only way you would truly know is if she told you. If so, she felt she could entrust you with the most intimate of details about herself. Have you violated that trust?

What is the definition of a man? What is the definition of a woman? (For this discussion, if you can, leave religious teachings and the Bible out.)

She is what her mind/education/feelings /desires/needs/wants/pe rsonality/ tell her. It appears that she has resolved her conflicts.

You are what your mind/education/feelin gs/desires/needs/wants/ personality/ tell you.

A lady is a woman, who is a balance for a man.

Quote from: Natalie3174 on February 27, 2009, 03:15:56 AM
I cant stand the word Gay. To me its a male conotation. More like Lesbians..Would be better.

Ummm........ whait, what?

I'm pretty sure the question wasn't asked by a women. And I don't think you could credibly call a man who is dating a woman (trans or cis) a "lesbian."

 Just go for it! Who cares about names like Gay.I personally have a fantasy to be with another transgendered woman. I called a prostitute and we lay in bed cuddling and talking about things transgendered. But we didnt have sex. Oh we had oral sex which was a bit wierd but I suppose girls can go down on each other . There's not much else we can do except kiss which was nice and she said she never kisses anyone.
Oh thats right  we were pre-ops..Your talking about post op..I should probably remove this.