the few neighbors my family talks to seem fine about it. one is next door and it seems like a non-issue for them. The other two neighbors, one is my dentist and the other is a golfing buddy of my dads. they both seem a little shy/put-off about me, but their wives and very cheery and fine with me, so im sure they will bring their husbands around.

I've lived in a few places where the neighbors knew about the friends I stayed with and by association, I'm sure that they figured out the same for me. They always treated my friends and me with reasonable respect.  This was in in LA and the bay area of California.

Before, when I lived in Utah, I made sure that no one knew.  They could not know.

Cindi

My neighbors have seen me dressed on a number of occasions. I've heard few comments. Once a teen age neightbor girl said that my GG friend and I were sisters(son hermanas). I like that. Fortunately all my neightbors are not LDS and missionaries avoid the neighborhood. Mostly I don't associate with neighbors and never have. Genevieve

I've got a bunch of @$$H01e neighbors. Luckily there are also some good neighbors too. It all kinda balances out and I do my best to get along with all of them 

My next door neighbour is a loud mouthed idiot.

BUT today I met her shopping and she said I looked fabulous, three times!

My vanity forgives her!

I'm not that person anymore... so why should i let my neighbor still think of me as that person?  By responding in the affirmative to either a wrong pronoun or wrong name would be going against who i am.  That's not me anymore, it never was.

Anyway, water under the bridge.  He hasn't tried to say hi to me since then.  I keep to myself and i'd like to stay alive until i can move to a new neighborhood where nobody will know.

They dont have to know a thing your not a criminal or a registered offender so just keep things civil with them and let it go to the eether, did you get your head light fixed ( dont need a ticket now do you ) just a side note its your place and space thats theirs let them have theirs and they will generally give you yours.

head up and be yourself smile alot , a smile turns most from bitter moods to pleasant and polite.

I live in a neighborhood where the houses are close together.  When I first moved in, I think maybe 2 neighbors said hello and introductions were made.  But then a year or so passed without really talking to those people.  Now I've transitioned pretty much right under everyone's noses.  And then reintroduced myself to one neighbor as Jay, and he didn't bat an eye.  Even though it seems we all know everyone's business, I have no idea if any of them have even really noticed.  Don't care.  Not going to out myself to them at all. 


Jay

lol, yeah i got my headlight fixed a couple of weeks later.