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How to feel okay with your prejudice, hatred, etc.

Started by Julie Marie, March 05, 2009, 01:27:06 PM

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Julie Marie

Look back on human history and you'll see a pattern for every person or group who has suffered discrimination, prejudice, hatred, torture and death because they didn't fall live within the walls of societal norms.  The list is endless.

The people who were creating a hostile environment for different people can't all be evil, sociopaths or masochists.  Most probably have a conscience.  And many had spouses and children and were well respected in their community.  So how could they live with themselves when they condoned burning women at the stake or hanging people from a tree because of their skin color?

Well, it's a process.  First of all you need to find something about your fellow human being that makes you uncomfortable.  A good dose of ignorance is critical.  Then you have to exaggerate the damage done to you.  From there you need to tell others of the potential damage this may cause them and convince them this may happen to you.  Again, focus on the ignorant if you want a quick following.

Once there are enough fearful people supporting you then you have to begin demonizing your new enemy.  Better said, you have to dehumanize them.  Once they have been dehumanized they are no longer a person.  They are a thing, and an evil thing at that. 

Take that and let it be known we will be destroyed by this evil thing if we don't destroy it first.  Then go destroy it and feel good about eradicating evil from this world.

The key is dehumanization.  As long as someone believes the person they are hurting isn't human they can justify anything they do to that person and still sleep at night.  If you don't believe just me ask any serial killer.

Now the question is how to you humanize those who have been dehumanized?

Julie
When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.
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gennee

This is something that I try to do everyday, Julie. It's not easy but it's worth it. I write in a Christian online magazine which ministers to the lgbt community. I target the transgender community.  I share that God loves them and that being transgender is part of his diversity. I have received some replies in which people were encouraged. I try to encourage those who feel down or depressed. It doesn't matter what their gender or sexuality is.

With the fiasco of the propositions in various states, I'm happy to hear that young people are forming grassroots organizations to address the many issues that affect them.  I have read that some opponents have changed their minds about the issues. Encouragement is needed among transgender folks. It's something that I do with great joy.

Gennee
 
   
 
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