*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that. My mom had cancer, but she didn't tell us until it was over. Well, me at least. So I never had the chance to be there for her. Its good your mom is making jokes, though. Laughter is good for the soul. I hope the four tiny spots were just calcium.
Do they know if the larger lump is terminal or benine yet? I don't know much, just what I gathered from tv, so I'm not sure if it is possible for cancer to be benine. Also, do they know if they're going to do surgery or just treat it..?
I really hope she gets better soon. And I hope it isn't too hard on any of you. *hugs again*

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they dont now about the 4 tiny spots they will tell her on tusday. and she will be having her breast taken away. and maybe the 4 spots if they need. to she will find that out on tuesday too. after the opp she will go onto radio theripy and cemo. so she will be very ill with that, but its a gd thing she has older kids that can take care of themselfs really.

I wish her lots of luck for tuesday. Do you know how long she'll need cemo?

6mths i think

That's not too bad. My grandpa went for several years.

I'm sorry you're dealing with so much. I hope your mom will be okay. There are a lot of success stories out there.

Mum went to docs today i went with her. Cuz i wanted to ask about going to a local place since whats going on i thpught it would be alot easyer. Well before i even said anythink she told me she got  me into a local place in hampshire. Also me and mum had a talk she said she dont want me to stop what i was doing she want me to try and handle both she said that if i need to go anywere then i can. She told me she sees how depressed i get and anythink that will help i should try to deal with it.