As a single dad with two daughters who were not fully house broken when I HAD to take custody of them, I find the whole thing pretty ridiculous. I ended up in both restrooms at one time or another with both of them, and I was not even wearing panties at that point in time. I actually had some women "do lookout duty" while I was helping the child balance on the toilet seat. They just asked me to turn my head when they went into the stall or adjusted a bra strap or garter belt. At a later time in the girls' lives, I even had to find ways to get pocket change into the women's rest rooms when they had not done their calendar work. Even when I had to take them into the men's restrooms it was spur of the moment enough that any determined annoyer would not have had time to get his act together, or his circus tent up.

My youngest daughter is now thirty, and was the gutsy one who actually turned in a guy who was jerking off in his car parked beside a well traveled pathway to the local Jr. High School. She saw enough to figure out what he was doing, and then she looked at the dodo's license plate instead of his gearshift apparatus. Three of her school chums were actually mad at her since they had been looking at the guy's source of display, and not with horror!!! They were embarrassed to have to tell their mothers how long they had watched with interest. The mothers were also embarrassed by how much the daughters had know, and "family education" was still a year in their future.

Now I do use the women's rest rooms, and no one yet has bothered me, even if they come in with either gender small child . The biggest reason is that they are paying too much attention to the child to see the big bad crossdresser. Sigh!!!