so i like two guys my ex bf and this lovely boy named shawn
my ex said he made a mistake and wants to get back with me and i do still like him but i like shawn to lol
i guess u cant really make the decision for me but i just dont know what to do

No offense, hun, but I think you need to work on YOU before getting back into any sort of relationship. Otherwise, any relationship you get in likely isn't gonna work and be healthy. And that's for anyone. Male, female, straight, gay, pan, bi...


Just curious, how old are you (if you care to say).

im not allowed to say 

then that leads me to believe you're fairly young, and therefore need to work on your own esteem even more than focus on guys.

when in a situation like this, i always remind myself of the very small fact that .. something happened to make the relationship fail, and people cannot change themselves intentionally. ex's are ex's for a reason.

Quote from: reno on March 22, 2009, 08:16:15 AM
when in a situation like this, i always remind myself of the very small fact that .. something happened to make the relationship fail, and people cannot change themselves intentionally. ex's are ex's for a reason.

Extremely true.

I also think you need to work on your self esteem too emoboi.

Jay

ex's are ex's for a reason

True that.  For every person, no matter how wonderful, sexy, or anything else, there is another person who is tired of their crap.

Quote from: tekla on March 22, 2009, 02:09:00 PM
True that.  For every person, no matter how wonderful, sexy, or anything else, there is another person who is tired of their crap.

That is so true. Wise words Tekla.

Jay