Every time my mum gets annoyed with me she uses the fact that i have woman's stuff against me.

Today she mentioned about my woman's clothes just to get back at me because we had a disagreement.  It gets up my nose. I just do not understand why she uses it against me.

One of these days i will shock her and when i see her i will be dressed fully as a woman then she wont be happy lol

Because it's handy and easy. Then she doesnt have to actually get honest and communicate.

i think its just really petty. Hope that someday it wont happen anymore but i guess until i let them know the choice iv made and tell them i want to transition then i guess my mum will keep digging at me.
It was only the other day my mum said to me iv got a choice to make and she said if i make the wrong choice i will miss out on a lot in life.

It could also be that she will be the one missing out on a lot in your life if she makes the wrong choice. Fear monger. Lol...