Long story short, we have to be out of our house by Monday. We've been up since a little before 8am workin our butts off, right. And this guy. This 'friend' of my moms, comes in to help. You know how he helps? He waits until my brother and his friend already have a plan and are already in the middle of doing it, packing our trailer with boxes, then he goes out and tries to tell them how to do it in the most ridiculous way. THEN he starts yelling at my mum, telling her she needs to get going and all that, but every time she starts to do something, he calls her away from it because he can't get by for two seconds without needing her up his arse. And at the end of the day, he says we've been doing NOTHING. Nothing! We did a good ammount with what we have, and he has teh balls to tell us all we've done nothing all day, and waisted his entire week. *growls* He was here allllllll week, stressing us out, and giving no inclination to help us, then turns around and says WE waisted his week. *snarls* So aside from being the most annoying man on earth, he's also a major jerk. He's been treating all of us like WE are teh ones who are slow. (this guys on meds he won't take, thus he's stupid). I should be nicer because he's mentally disabled, but.... I just can't. Not with everything he does. Theres so much more, but, I'm hungry, and I'ma go eat and continue to rant in my head about how much this guy pisses me off. *headwalls*

ps: on top of it all, he made me feel twice as fat than I am because I wanted a little bit of icecream. So aside from being totally hating myself for my bewbs, I'm also hating myself for my big belly. -.-

This guy is supposedly a friend? There to help? Been there all week stressing you folks out? I'd be inclined to beat the ever livin' stuffing out of him. But that's just me. Even with my injuries, I'm still pretty good at stuff like that. I'm sorry your having such a rough time. Does your family have somewhere to go?

Yeah, I know, right? My big brother nearly punched him a couple times today. But my brother has learned to control himself.
Well, thank you for your concern, but it's happening to a lot of people around here and the mortgage companies really have no heart. We've got an RV, but it's small. I mean, it's a nice big one, but it's old and small for the four of us. And I have a handicapped brother who can't walk or talk or anything (just makes loud noises and scoots about) so that makes it even smaller. -.- Ocwen took the last we had saved up, so, we don't have enough for a house. With the rv, we can save money, anyway. Just not sure where to park that. o.O

<enter amateur psychologist mode>

Sounds like this guy constantly needs to convince himself that he's soooo much brighter than everyone else. So he sets up situations that allow him to think that you're idiots.

Of course, he does that because he's hideously insecure, and deep down he knows he's not brighter than everyone else. If he really was, he wouldn't need to prove it.

So what can you do about it?

Fighting or arguing won't work. That means you're taking him seriously, and that will just feed his delusions. Don't argue, don't get mad, just do it your way. When he says something, just smile, thank him for his suggestions, and tell him you'd rather do it the right way. Make it clear that you think he's not worth arguing with. Chuckle. Laugh at him, even.

And be prepared to duck if he swings a punch. If you can avoid it, don't fight back. Just shake your head, like he's a silly little kid.

Lol, i typically ignore him. But, I'll have my brother read that. Ty. <3