....couldn't decide which to put it under. So it's here.

Ok, so I wrote my parents and what not about being a guy inside. And my mom hasn't talked to me since (like Feb 14th.). Me and my dad have been e-mailing but that's about it. Well, I really want to discuss my side of things with them before the summer comes because they want me to come home for a few days. But I can't do that unless I talk every thing over with them first. I've talked to my therapist and she is willing for them to come down and discuss things with me and them in her office. But I'm scared.....big time. I hate confrontations but this is one that is going to have to happen. Does anybody have any advice on how to start the conversation? Or maybe my therapist would be willing to talk over the "rules" on how everybody has to "behave" while in there first? I don't really know what the point of this post is other then to know I'm not alone in this.

Thanks for listening to my rambleness......

I think if you can get them to agree to meet with your therapist in a group setting that it would be easiest for you and best for all parties.

I agree. Meeting in a controlled environment is good. It will also keep things rolling. Your therapist will know how to steer a conversation. Also your therapist is your support. So your not alone. ^_^ Sometimes thought its hard to get familys to go to therapists. Don't get discouraged if they say no. Just explain how important it is for you. If they still say no than try to compromise. Hope this helps!