Hi Kathy and Welcome Back,
Oh that is great news that you have told your Mom and brother.
I bet it is a relief not to have to hide it from them. From how you are posting I gather you are TS. Right? Can you be yourself at home?
If not than the best way to go forward now is to move out and get your own place.
Are you going to college or do you have a job?
Try planning your future instead of just waiting for things to happen.
Another thing you should do is get a gender therapist who will help you with your inter and outer struggles.
Aagin I am happy for you.
Keep going girl.

Jillieann